Finding things in Common
How do we find out if we have something in common with someone else?
We start a conversation!
True or False: Asking questions is a good way to start a conversation.
True!
Trent doesn't like when his friends have other friends. Is this being a good friend?
No, Trent is being selfish. If he can have other friends, then his friends can too.
What is turn-taking?
Turn-taking is when you take turns being quiet while you let the other person talk so you can effectively listen to what they have to say.
What is the I-statement format and when do you use it?
The I-statement format is "I feel....when...I want..." We use it when there is a conflict.
What is one thing we all have in common?
We're all girls! (other acceptable answers)
Laura likes to ride bikes and so does Tim. How can Laura start a conversation with Tim?
Talk to him about bikes
Maya lets her friends play first when they are playing a game. Is Maya being a good friend?
Yes! Because Maya is being considerate of others!
Why is turn-taking important?
Because it's respectful!
True or False: "I think you are stupid. You are a terrible friend." is an I-statement.
False!
Jack and David both like Lady Gaga. Have they found something in common?
Yes! They both like Lady Gaga!
Mac tried to start a conversation by saying, "I like your shoes!". Is this a good way to start a conversation?
Yes!
Name one quality of a good friendship?
Kindness, respectfulness, etc.
Candice told Denise all about her trip to the zoo.
Candice said, "There were monkeys and tigers--"
"I went to the zoo before!" shouted Denise, "I went to the one in Fresno on a fieldtrip! It was really cool!"
Was Denise practicing good turn taking?
No, she interrupted Candice with her own story.
Is this a good I-statement? "I feel sad when you leave me out. Next time I would like to play too."
Yes, this is a great I-statement!
Find something in common with your partner!
Start a conversation with your partner
Any answer
Tell me one thing that makes your partner a good friend
Any answer
Candice told Denise all about her trip to the zoo.
Candice said, "There were monkeys and tigers--"
"I went to the zoo before!" shouted Denise, "I went to the one in Fresno on a fieldtrip! It was really cool!"
How might Candice feel about the way Denise interrupted?
Annoyed, sad, disrespected.
Lisa let Bart borrow her saxophone and he broke it! What I-statement could Lisa use?
I feel upset when you break my things. I would like you to respect my personal belongings.
Find something in common with a member of the other team!
Any answer
Start a conversation with a member of the other team
Tell me one good thing that makes a member of the other team a good friend
Any answer
Candice told Denise all about her trip to the zoo. How can Denise show Candice that she is listening? What will she say when it is her turn to talk to show she was listening?
Nod her head, stay quiet, make eye contact; Ask a question about the zoo, make a comment about something Candice said.
What was your favorite part of Friendship Group?
Any answer