He's Losing Interest
Most common thing a guy says when he’s not interested anymore.
→ “I’ve just been busy.”
→ “I’m not ready for a relationship.”
→ “You deserve better.”
→ “I’ve been going through a lot.”
Texts he sends when he's lowkey mad
"It's fine."
"Oh"
"Whatever"
Most suspicious Snap behavior.
→ Leaves you on opened/delivered
→ active but not answering
→ Has snapchat plus
Most common first confession text.
→ “I like you.”
→ “I’ve had a crush on you for a while.”
→ “I can’t stop thinking about you.”
Things you do before seeing him
→ Brush your teeth
→ Everything shower
→ Full face of makeup
→ Curl your hair
Most common sign he's slowly ghosting
→ Takes hours to reply
→ Replies get shorter
→ Stops asking questions
Most common thing guys say to avoid commitment.
→ “Let’s just see where it goes.”
→ “Why rush?”
→ “I don’t like labels.”
Biggest red flag first date move.
→ Talks about ex
→ On his phone
→ Doesn’t pay
→ “I think of you as more than a friend.”
→ “I like you… but I don’t want to ruin things.”
→ “You’re really special to me.”
Common code words girls use
→ Water bottle
→ Pineapple
→ Pizza
Most obvious excuse to cancel plans.
→ “Something came up.”
→ “I forgot I had practice.”
→ “My boss put me on the schedule.”
Most delusional thing girls say to defend him.
→ “He’s just bad at texting.”
→ “He’s just stressed.”
→ “That’s just how he is.”
Most common excuses for why you were on delivered
→ “I fell asleep.”
→ “My phone died.”
→ “I didn’t see it.”
Things he says when he’s about to confess he lied
→ “I need to be honest with you”
→ “I didn’t tell you the full story”
Things we do to avoid awkward situations.
→ Laugh when we’re actually annoyed
→ Change the subject fast
→ Pretend we’re busy to escape
→ “We need to talk.”
→ “It's not you it's me”
→ “Can I be honest?”
- Moving way too quick
- texting one day and ghosting the next
Most common things guys lie about on the first date
→ Wealth
→ Height
→ Job
Things he says when he's about to admit he messed up.
→ “I don't know how to say this but..."
→ “I want you to hear this from me"
→ “I never meant to hurt you"
Things we do at sleepovers
→ Prank call
→ EAT
Most common comeback text after ghosting
→ “Missed you.”
→ “What you been up to?"
→ "You up?"
Most common excuse for not posting you.
→ “I don’t use Instagram like that.”
→ “I like to keep things private.”
→ “I don’t want drama.”
Toxic phrases they say while you're arguing
→ “You’re overthinking.”
→ “You’re crazy.”
→ “It’s not that deep.”
→ “I didn't do anything."
Things he says before trying to fix things after a fight
→ “Can we talk about what happened?”
→ “I don’t want this to ruin us”
→ “I want to make it right”
Things we do to cope with drama.
→ Write long rants in notes but don’t send them
→ Talk to friends/cousins about it