Upstander/Bystander
What is being a bystander
Watching someone get bullied and choosing not to do anything to stop
Can you think about a time when someone was being kind to you? How did it make you feel?
answers will vary...
When was a time when your friend helped you or you helped your friend?
answers will vary...
If you see someone who looks sad or lonely, what's a kind thing to do
Ask them to join or play with you
What does the W stand for in P.A.W.S
Working together
Who can you tell if you or someone else is getting bullied
Lunch-aid, teacher, parent, adult
How should we treat others
Treat others with kindness. Treat people how you want to be treated
How can you cheer up a friend who is feeling sad
Ex) Tell them a joke, play a game with them, Say something kind to them, Give them a hug
Why is including one another important
It spreads kindness and makes the other person feel happy and included
What does the P stand for in P.A.W.S
Practice safety
Whats an example of not being an upstander
Being mean to someone
Ex) Saying mean things, hurting someone, not being nice
What are some everyday acts of kindness that you can do
Holding the door for someone, Helping someone, Including people
What is a good friendship
Having a friend who is kind to you and would have your back
How can we include each other
During recess, ask someone if they want to play together
What does the S stand for in P.A.W.S
Show respect and kindness
Whats an example of being an upstander
Ex)If someone is being bullied and you see this happening, you should tell the bully to STOP
How do you think people feel when you are kind to them
They will feel cared about/important
What does it mean to be a bad friend?
ex) Being a bad friend is someone who does not care about you and is mean. (answers will vary)
When can we include one another
During recess, eating lunch while working together
What does the A stand for in P.A.W.S
Acting responsibly
What's being Upstander mean
Standing up for someone who is being bullied or standing up for ourselves from a bully
Why does kindness matter
It helps make other people feel happy
what does it mean to be a good friend?
ex) A good friend is someone you can trust, and feel comfortable around.
How would you feel if someone included you
Ex) Like you matter, Welcomed, Cared for
Whats an example of showing PAWS behavior
Ex) Keeping our hands and feet to our selves, Using an indoor voice while working