What does the school counselor do?
True or False:
I have to see the school counselor when I get in trouble.
False
It depends on the trouble. I can help you process a lot to keep you out of trouble. However, there are some things that even I can't protect you from. What things do you think they are?
True or False:
The school counselor helps students study for tests.
True
I can help you with strategies to overcome test anxiety or help you discover skills that will assist you in preparing for tests in your own way.
True or False:
The school counselor may talk to my teacher.
True, I can never tell the teacher something you tell me not to tell, Unless it is something concerning you hurting yourself, someone else, someone is hurting you or if you gave me permission. I may just want to give you praise.
True or False:
The school counselor sees every student individually.
False,
I only see students individually that request me or if a staff or faculty member or parent, principal, assistant principal asks me to see or if a student needs academic assistance.
True or False
Mrs. Delles has 5 nephews
False
I'm the oldest of 5 and I have 3 nephews and 4 nieces
True or False:
The school counselor only helps students with special needs.
False
I help all students with all abilities.
True or False:
The school counselor can help when I feel angry.
True
I will help you find strategies that work for you as an individual. Who can tell me what these strategies are called?
True or False:
If I tell the school counselor someone is getting hurt or I am getting hurt, she will tell my parents.
True
True or False:
The school counselor sees some students in groups.
True
There are small groups that I will lead based on the overall need of the majority of students. If I have a large amount of failing students, I might lead an academic small group to assist in bringing up their grades.
True or False
Mrs. Delles likes to use catch words/phrases instead of saying be-quiet
True
Like Banana or Peanut Butter Jelly
True or False:
The school counselor sees students in groups and individually.
True
Yes, you will also see me in class once a month unless I bring in a speaker. I hope to also see you out and about during your games, recitals, assemblies, etc.
True or False:
The school counselor can help me with family problems.
True and False
There are some problems that I can't help you with, but I will always listen to you without judgement. Sometimes we just need to talk about it.
I can help with skills such as conflict resolution.
True or False:
The school counselor may talk to my parents.
True, both with permission and if you're in trouble. I may randomly call to give you praise. I can't tell them anything you don't want me to tell them, unless it is something concerning you hurting yourself, someone else, someone is hurting you or if you gave me permission.
True or False:
The school counselor chooses to see kids based on who she likes the best.
False
I don't even have a favorite out of my 3 nephews and 4 nieces.
True or False
Mrs. Delles has 5 kids and 1 furbaby
False
I have 1 handsome Furbaby named Wiley
True or False:
The school counselor can help me if I am feeling sick.
False
However, some mental health issues such as stress, depression or even anger can cause symptoms such as an upset stomach or a headache. So, if you do come to me before the nurse, I will do a check-in with you.
True or False:
The school counselor can help me make new friends.
True and False
True or False:
If I tell the school counselor a secret she will keep it ALL the time.
True, Unless it is something concerning you hurting yourself, someone else, someone is hurting you or if you gave me permission.
True or False:
It is okay to ask to see the school counselor if I am having a problem
True,
Teachers will allow you to see me immediately if I'm available and if they feel it's an emergency. You can also send me a message through Schoology.
True or False
Mrs. Delles has coping skills
True
I count to 10, I love to run, I probably can beat you, I like yoga, meditating and spending time with my family doing arts and crafts
True or False:
The school counselor will report any abuse or neglect to DHR if reported to the school counselor.
True
Ture or False:
When you are having trouble with social/emotional issues the school counselor will assist in providing coping skills.
True
True or False:
The school counselor will tell the principal immediately when you have conflict or threaten someone.
False
I will work with you and try to assist in solving the conflict with you. 2nd offense, your parents and the principal will be involved.
True or False:
The school counselor has to meet with me immediately, if requested.
False:
I will do my best, to meet with you asap. I have a lot of daily tasks and requests. If I can't same day, I will in order of requested the following day.
What is a S.M.A.R.T goal?
Specific , Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, Time Goal