Multiple Choice
What Should You Do?
Conflict or Bullying?
1

 When two classmates disagree during group work, the most effective strategy is to:
A) Ignore each other until the project is due
B) Talk it out respectfully and look for common ground
C) Ask someone else to do the work to avoid fighting
D) See who can argue the loudest to “win”

Talk it out...RESPECTFULLY!

1

Half the class wants to play dodgeball, half wants to play kickball. Teachers pick two reps (one from each group) to decide but the other rep insists on what they want.

Should you fight over it or suggest you play rock paper scissors?

Rock paper scissors SHOOT! It's not worth a fight!

1

Sarah has accused India of stealing her chips. Sarah screamed at India in front of all of their friends, but India argued back that she hadn’t stolen it.

Conflict

It seems to be a one-time occurrence. Although Sarah is upset enough to have an outburst, there is no indication that she is afraid or distressed.

2

Which of the following is an example of a win-win solution?
A) Both people feel satisfied with the outcome
B) One person gets exactly what they want, the other gives up
C) Neither person is happy, but the fight is over
D) Both people agree to ignore the issue permanently

A


Also known as a COMPROMISE!

2
A friend from class invited everyone over for a birthday party but you. 


Should you resolve the conflict by confronting her or tell an adult?

Confront her, but do it kindly. Ask her what's up!

2

There is a group of girls in your swim club that have grown to become buddies. During open-swim, one of the girls, Allie, makes a comment about Kayla's swimsuit, which is perceived as a diss. Kayla becomes furious about being insulted. She bands together with the rest of the cabin and begins to ignore and leave out Allie. This continues, and Allie becomes more and more withdrawn from the group. She doesn’t enjoy coming to the program anymore.


Bullying

While this relationship began as a peer relationship, it is evolved into a power imbalance, as a group of girls are excluding one girl

3

What is the role of a mediator in conflict resolution?
A) To take sides and decide who is right
B) To punish the person who caused the conflict
C) To help both sides communicate and find a fair solution
D) To force both sides to accept their decision

C

A mediator can be a friend, classmate, or adult!

3

You overheard a classmate making fun of your clothes. You're salty but this person doesn't ever speak to you or bother you.

Ignore it, or tell the teacher?

Ignore it! Haters gonna hate!

3

Jared, a boy in first grade was approached by another boy, Samuel, to play cards during free-time. Jared told Samuel that he did not want to play with him. Since that time, Samuel has continued to approach Jared every day during free-time to join in an activity. Samuel has few friends and seems desperate to make friends with Jared. Jared is beginning to feel harassed by Samuel.

Conflict

  • While there is a power imbalance, based on the fact that one of the two boys has few friends and few social skills, there is no intent to harm.
  • Jared, who has refused Samuels’ friendship, has not done so in order to hurt him. He has not told others, he has not tried to humiliate or hurt the boy. He is simply honoring his own feelings.