Support Systems
This metaphor says getting help is not a weakness but a ____________.
Strength
This support system is usually the first and longest of our lives.
Our parents
A real friend does things that _________ you, not hurt you.
Help
This type of adult at school helps students talk about goals, dreams, and problems.
School social worker or counselor
What is a mentor?
Someone who has already done something you want to do and can help you reach that goal.
What does each plug represent in the power strip metaphor?
A support system or person
How much time should you spend each day with your parent/guardian?
at least 30 min.
What is not a positive friend?
When that person makes you feel fear or pressure to do something wrong.
True or False: You should only talk to school staff if you are in trouble.
False; make connections with them outside of being in trouble.
Students should identify someone who has achieved ________ similar to them.
Goals or dreams
True or False: Some people may only have one support plug connected right now.
True or False: it is okay to constantly burn bridges with parents because friends are more important.
False.
When we are with positive friends, how should we feel about ourselves?
Better about ourselves, respected, in control, etc.
When someone knows the "real me" what do they know about you?
Your interests, goals, dreams, and who I am at my core.
What are qualities?
something students should be able to identify about their mentor.
Who has the power to strengthen their support system?
Name one way you can reduce conflict with your parent/guardian.
1. Let go of small arguments
2. communicate calmly
3. spend time together
Name one way you can be a real friend.
1. Support them
2. help them resist peer pressure
3. encourage good choices.
Name one way a student can get more connected at school.
1. join a club
2. play a sport
3. attend activities
4. talk with teachers/staff
This plug in the metaphore represents something you enjoy doing that builds confidence.
Passion/hobby/activity
Why are support systems important when we face challenges?
They help us overcome challenges and build resistance.
Why do children sometimes (most of the time) take their frustrations out on family members?
It is who they are most comfortable with and know family will always love them and stick by them.
"Do I feel pressure, fear, or like I must do things I don't want to do?" is a question you should ask yourself to ensure you have a ___________ friendship.
Positive.
Why is it important to that a school member knows the real you?
To help you reach your goal/dreams and knows you to your full potential.
Why are passions important during challenges?
They help motivate us, build confidence, and keep us out of trouble.