What is the Point?
What 2 positive emotion zones can friendships cause you to feel?
Blue, Green, Yellow, Red
Green Zone Emotions (Happiness)
Yellow Zone Emotions (Excitement)
I should add the people on the phone list to my phone and try calling or texting them to see if they are going to the social. (True or False)
True! If you can ask them in person if it is okay to give them a call or text sometime to get their permission would be great.
What is an unexpected time to call a classmate or friend?
A) 6 AM
B) 2 AM
C) 12 AM
D) All of these are unexpected.
On social outings, weekend outings or on the phone I should be very....
A) Annoyed at Others
B) Unfriendly
C) Respectful
D) Silly
C) Respectful
If a classmate is making you feel uncomfortable by being too close or is touching you. (Yes or No)
Yes - You should use your words first and also let a trusted adult know what happened right away.
What are healthy things to talk about with friends?
A) Common Interests (Movies, Games, Sports, Hobbies)
B) Politics
C) How much money you make
A) Common interests... find out favorites and see if you can relate.
What are some conversation topics to talk about with friends at the socials or on the phone?
A) What they are doing over the weekend
B) Sports
C) Movies
D) Music
Should you add people to a group chat without their permission? (Yes / No)
No, you should first ask the person if they would like to be included. You should also make sure that the classmate is using their own cellphone. There should be NO drama texting or calling a classmate.
Am I allowed to touch others on social communities or weekend socials?
No! Only thing would be a high five or a fist bump (1 time). Remember to keep safe hands and respect others space.
If you realize you forgot your wallet after ordering and eating lunch at a sit down restaurant. (Yes/No)
Yes! Bring your cell phone with but remember to not be on it. Who do you think you should call?
Why would you call someone or go to a weekend social event?
A) Try Something New
B) Meet new friends
C) Have Fun
D) All of the above
D) To be independent, grow your friendship network, and most importantly have fun :)
What should you do when you first get to the weekend social?
Greet your classmates with a smile and be welcoming!
Getting together at the weekend social event is all about friendship, not dating. Is it okay to be romantic (hugging/kissing/sitting on someone's lap) on the Weekend Social Outings if you are dating someone?
NO. Your behavior might make someone feel very uncomfortable. Weekend socials are not dates. They are created for you to increase your friendships with others in Transition Program. Remember to have boundaries when you are there. If you want to date you can set up a time after the social.
Is it okay to make fun of a classmate or talk about them behind their back?
NO! That is called bullying. You should report this to a trusted adult right away. Talk positive about each other. There is 0 tolerance to bullying.
You go to a social event and no one you know is there. (Yes/No)
Yes! That would not be a social event. However, all you need is one other classmate for it to be a social event. Who would you call?
Why should I call or spend time with others?
It is a good way to get to know other people. It helps people feel less lonely and creates a sense of belonging.
Is it okay to feel a bit nervous the first time spending time with classmates on a Saturday?
It is normal the first time you do something to feel nervous. At the social events there will be leaders there to help greet others, encourage, and to make sure everyone feels welcomed.
If I am losing at a game or sport on socials it is okay to complain, get really angry, and yell and stomp.
Unexpected! Be a good sport and remember you are there to have fun with classmates not beat everyone or win every game.
Should I accept others for who they are?
Yes! Try your best to be friendly to others at all times.
A friend is getting made fun of on social or you hear people gossiping about a classmate. (Yes/No).
Yes. Report this to a trusted adult right away and let Mr. D know on Monday.
How do you turn a classmate into a close friendship?
First find out if you have common interests, spend time calling and texting them. Spend time in school and out of school doing fun activities.
Your friend is talking to you about something very important to them... what should you do?
Listen! Do not solve their problems or tell them what to do. Listen to how they feel and tell them that you are there for them :)
If someone tells you to please stop calling so much what should you do?
Stop calling them. Wait for them to call you. If they do not call you back they might be busy. Calling people too much can ruin a friendship. Listen to what your classmate is telling you.
If someone is not following the rules, what should you do?
A) Nothing
B) Report it
C) Laugh and join them
B) report it
First, inform your parent or who dropped you off at the social. Then report it on Monday to Mr. D. There are consequences to not following rules at socials.
Name 3 trusted adults
A) Your parent or guardian :)
B) Your family members :)
C) A teacher :)
D) Social Worker :)