Your School Counselor
How many dogs does Mrs. Dean have?
Four
Why do students usually ask to see their counselor?
They have a problem or conflict or just need someone to really listen to them.
Who does your school counselor support?
All students!
Why do counselors teach students friendship and emotional skills?
School is practice and preparation for adulthood.
What is confidentiality?
Keeping conversations between people private. Not telling others what was said unless absolutely necessary.
Can I just go to see the counselor if I want to talk?
No. Please request to speak with your School Counselor, to ensure we are available and your teacher is okay with you missing learning time.
Are you ever in trouble when you go to see your school counselor?
No. I don't give out any discipline! Sometimes I have to have difficult conversations, but I do not hand out any discipline.
What do counselors teach coping skills to help handle?
Strong emotions, & hard situations that people face
What are some things counselors do?
Talk with students individually, classroom lessons, small groups, talk with teachers, talk with parents or other staff
What are the four exceptions to confidentiality?
*Someone is hurting you. *You want to hurt someone.* *You want to hurt yourself. *You give me permission to tell*
What is something Mrs. Dean likes to do?
Read, Suduko, watch sunset, collect beach glass...
What are things your counselor can help you with?
Feelings, family, classes, friends, organization, teachers, grades, test anxiety . . . just to name a few
What is "venting"?
A way to cope with stress/negative emotions by telling someone about what happened or is happening.
Are school counselors in charge of discipline?
No, that is the job of teachers and school administrators.
How do I report something without other students knowing about it?
Speak Up, Speak Out (Bristol Website under Families/Students)
How many years total have I been a counselor at Bristol?
This is my second year at Bristol
Should you see a School Counselor because someone cheated at recess?
No. The recess supervisors should be notified first of any inappropriate behavior at recess.
Besides students, who does your counselor work with?
Teachers, administrators, school staff, and parents
Will my counselor tell my teacher if I have any complaints about a class or conflict with a teacher?
Your counselor will not tell your teacher without your permission.
How do I set up a time to meet with my counselor?
Let your teacher know you could use a visit. Have your parents contact your counselor.
Who is your individual School Counselor?
Mrs. Dean (Last Name A-K), Mrs. Thorson (Last Name L-Z)
Do you have to be going through a major crisis or to see your counselor?
Counselors support ALL students whether they need a lot or a little help.
What are some ways your counselor can help you when you're feeling anxious?
Talking it through, breathing exercises, fidgets, and practicing coping skills.
How does your counselor advocate for you?
Standing up for students; being the "voice" for students in meetings; being a go-between for students and teachers.
Where is the counselor's office?
In the main hallway across from the girl's bathroom.