Four Horsemen
Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, Stonewalling
What are the Four Horsemen?
A signal for support, affection or engagement from your spouse.
What is a BID?
An opportunity to give back and shine for our community with the Gospel!
What was the purpose of making it an open-to-the-public workshop gathering?
Framing an issue by describing your spouse's character and their issues as the problem.
Criticism
Can you help me with this?
What is an example of a bid for support?
Genesis, Ephesians
What were two of the Bible books we reviewed?
Not taking responsibility for a complaint offered by your spouse.
Defensiveness
You gotta hear the one about the rabbi, the priest and the juggler!
What's an example of a small bid for shared humor?
Discipleship
What is the one foundation that makes all the difference for us?
The 5 to 1 ratio
The ratio of positive to negative interactions that occur in conflict discussions when the friendship is doing well.
A nick-name for paying attention to the present -moment interactions that occur between you and your spouse.
What is The Five Minute Focus?
Paredoken
The Greek term that describes a "giving over" of one's self for the sake of the other, as Christ does for us.
91%
The prediction accuracy after of a marriage ending in 5.6 years if it displays the Four Horsemen behaviors, physiological reactions, and expression of bad memories.
Bids that occur during a conflict that promote repair.
Repair Attempts!
Ephesians 5:25
What was the theme scripture we started with?