Peer Pressure
Peer pressure is…
What is:
When someone around your age influences you to do something you might not normally do
break the rules
do something you don't want to do
What positive self-talk for dealing with disappointment?
A. "This is SO unfair."
B. "Things never go my way."
C. "I am resilient and I can deal with this."
What is: C
In life, we don't always get our way and attitude is a great predictor of happiness.
What is one new responsibility many teenagers get?
Doing chores, studying alone, or managing money
What is the most important quality in a good friend?
Trust
What is one healthy way to relax when stressed?
Exercise, music, hobbies
True or False: Peer pressure can only be negative.
False (it can be positive too)
True or False: It's best to solve a problem when I'm upset so I'll know exactly what to do.
What is: False
You can think logically and find a fair solution when you've had time to get calm.
True or False: Independence only brings challenges, not opportunities.
False. It brings both
True or False: Friends always give good advice.
False
True or False: Ignoring problems is the best way to deal with stress.
False
What is one common example of negative peer pressure? (must say at least one from the list)
What is breaking the rules, teasing, bullying, cheating, lying, leaving someone out on purpose, being disrespectful, being mean on purpose
True or False: An I-message works well with friends, parents and teachers.
I feel _______.
When you ______.
I wish ________.
What is one good result of learning time management?
More free time or less stress
What is one bad effect of social media on friends?
Jealousy, fights, or pressure
Who can teenagers ask for advice if they feel pressure?
Parents, teachers, or close friends
Which is harder to resist: direct peer pressure or indirect peer pressure?
Example of direct: verbally saying "You should..."
Example of indirect: unspoken influence where kids might change their behavior to fit in (ie. a friend is gossiping about a classmate and you feel pressured to join in)
Indirect peer pressure (because it’s harder to notice)
What does “compromise” mean?
Both sides give up something to reach an agreement
Both sides get a little of what they want
Finding a fair solution that suits both sides
Why is a part-time job a big opportunity?
It teaches responsibility and gives money
If two friends fight, what is the first step to fix it?
Talk calmly and listen
What do we call the skill of finding answers to problems?
Problem-solving
What is a great long-term strategy to avoid negative peer pressure? (must say at least one to earn the points)
What is:
Build your self-confidence
Choose supportive friends
Talk with a trusted adult
Know your values & be strong in them (say "no")
Get Calm
Say the problem without blame
Think of solutions & consequences
Try a solution
What skill do challenges help teenagers build?
Resilience (not giving up)
Who usually influences teenagers more: friends or parents?
Friends
What does “resilience” mean?
Staying strong and recovering after problems