Emotional
Losses
Wins
300

Emotional deposit

when you do something that helps the relationship

300

Emotional Withdraw

when you do something to hurt a relationship

300

Win-Win

if you go for win-win or no deal. you're ready to walk away before someone loses

400

Emotional Bank accounts 

thinking about your past relationships as a bank account where deposits and withdraws are emotional.

400

Lose-Win

if your low on courage and high on consideration, your insecure

400

examples of emotional deposits

do small acts of kindness

keeps promises

keep confidence

be loyal to absent

set clear expectations

apologize and forgive

500

Win-Lose

If you are high on courage and low on consideration, your trying to be ahead or better than other people

500

Lose-Lose

if you cant win, nobody wins, you get revenge 

500

set clear expectations

follow through with your plans, and make them clear