VOCAB
pretend listening
when your not paying attention to the other person speaking but you look like you are
define Judging
Making judgement about them or what they are saying is usually not good ( what we are thinking in the back of our minds)
Whats the main topic of habit 3
put first things first
spacing out
when someone is talking but your not listening because your mind is thinking of something else
Define Habit
Something you do everyday that is repetitive and could be hard to break
1. procrastinator
2. prioritize
3. yes-man
4. slacker
selective listening
we only pay attention to the part of the story that interests us
Define Mirroring
Afriming what someone says and re stating it in your own words.
what are the 5 poor listening styles
1. spacing out
2. pretend listening
3. selective listening
4. word listening
5. self centered listening
self centered listening
we only see the story from out point of view and don't put our self in the other shoes
Define Advising
Giving advise from your own experience
when its come to your PBA what is a withdrawal
A withdrawal when it comes to your PBA is when you feel disappointed or when you break a promise to yourself.
word listening
when someone is talking but you only pay attention to the words and not the body language, so you miss out on whats really being said
Define Probing
when you try and dig deep into everyone's emotions before they are ready to share.
How does habit 5 build from habit 1
Habit 5 goes with habit 1 because in order to put yourself in someone else's shoes you have to be proactive and think about what there going through.