Autobiographical responses
The basics

Being Understood

100

What kind of autobiographical response is this?

Interpreting

100

Covey says empathic listening is one of the biggest deposits you can make into this.

Emotional Bank Accounts 

100

Seeking to be understood takes...

Courage 

200

What kind of autobiographical response is this?

Advising

200

Trying to treat problems before you know what you know what is it is referred to as...

Diagnosing before you prescribe 

200

The Greek term for your personal credibility, or the trust others have in your integrity and competence.

+100 for the philosopher who coined these terms

Ethos

+100 if Aristotle 

300

What kind of autobiographical response is this? 

Probing

300

The highest of Covey’s five levels of listening.

Empathetic Listening

300

DAILY DOUBLE:

Name the 3 Pillars in order

ethos, pathos, logos

400

What kind of autobiographical response is this...

Evaluating


400

Covey compares the need to be understood to this, which you don’t notice you need until it’s taken away.

Psychological Air

400

Empathic listening differs because it comes from this, not from technique  

a sincere desire to understand

500

Covey says most people don’t listen with the intent to understand, but with this intent instead

Intent to reply

500

Focusing carefully on the words being said, but still filtering them through your own experience.

Attentive Listening

500

Covey describes four developmental stages of empathic listening. Name all four in order.

mimic content, rephrase content, reflect feeling, and rephrase content and reflect feeling