Why Disagreements Happen
True or False: It’s normal to have disagreements with friends.
True.
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What’s one thing you can do to calm down in a disagreement?
Take deep breaths or count to ten.
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What’s one way to show you’re listening during a disagreement?
Nod or make eye contact.
What’s one way to solve a disagreement?
Compromise or take turns choosing.
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Why is it important to move on after a disagreement?
So it doesn’t hurt the friendship long-term.
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What’s one common reason disagreements start?
Different opinions, misunderstandings, or stress.
True or False: Walking away for a break can help cool things down.
True.
Why is it important to listen to the other person’s side?
It shows respect and helps you understand them.
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True or False: The goal is always to “win” the argument.
False.
True or False: Holding grudges helps build stronger friendships.
False.
Why are disagreements not always bad?
They can help people understand each other better.
**Double Jeopardy
Why should you avoid shouting in a disagreement?
It makes the problem worse and harder to solve.
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True or False: Listening means agreeing with the other person.
False.
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Why is compromise important in disagreements?
It helps both people feel satisfied.
**Triple Jeopardy
What’s one way to show forgiveness after a disagreement?
Say “It’s okay” or act kindly again.
What’s one mistake that can make small disagreements worse?
What’s one mistake that can make small disagreements worse?
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What’s one way to use body language to stay calm?
Keep relaxed posture and avoid aggressive gestures.
What’s one thing you can say to show you heard their point?
“I see what you mean” or “I understand your view.”
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What’s one way to suggest a solution politely?
“How about we try this instead?”
Why should you avoid bringing up old arguments in new disagreements?
It makes the conflict bigger and harder to solve.
**Double jeopardy
What’s one healthy goal during a disagreement?
To solve the problem while keeping the friendship.
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Why does staying calm help in disagreements?
It keeps the focus on solving the problem, not fighting.
Why does listening help solve disagreements?
It makes both people feel valued and helps find compromise.
Why should you be flexible during a disagreement?
It shows maturity and helps keep the friendship.
What’s the ultimate goal after solving a disagreement?
To stay friends and move forward positively.