Big Feelings
Calm Down Tools

Safe People
My Body & Safety
Kind Choices
100

This feeling might make your eyes water and your mouth turn down.

Sad

100

Taking slow air in and out with your belly is called this. 

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Deep Breathe

100

A grown-up who helps keep you safe at school.

Teacher or school staff

100

Your body belongs to this person.

You

100

Sharing toys is an example of being this.

Being kind
200

When your face turns red and you want to stomp your feet, you might feel this.

Angry

200

Counting slowly to this number can help calm your body. 

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10

200

A grown-up you live with who takes care of you.

Mom, Dad, Grandma, Grandpa, etc

200

If someone touches you in a way that feels wrong, you can do this.

Say no

200

Helping a friend who fell down is being this.

Helpful

300

This feeling can make your tummy feel funny when something scary happens.

Scared

300

Squeezing a stuffed animal or pillow can help your body do this 

Let pretend

Relax

300

If you feel scared, you should tell one of these trusted helpers. 

Safe adult

300

After saying no, Then you should do this next.

tell a safe adult

300

Using gentle hands shows this behavior.

Safe behavior

400

This feeling makes you smile and want to jump for joy.

Happy

400

Sitting quietly and noticing your breathing is called this 

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Calm Time

400

This person helps when someone is hurt or sick.

Doctor or Nurse

400

Your heart beating fast when something scary happens means your body is trying to do this.

Protecting you

400

Listening when a friend talks shows this

respect

500

When someone hurts your feelings, this is okay to do with a safe adult.

talk about it

500

Moving your body like stretching or shaking helps your body do this. 

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Release energy or calm down

500

If the first safe adult doesn’t listen, you should do this.

Tell a different safe adult

500

If something feels unsafe, this feeling inside can help guide you.

Gut Feeling

500

When you hurt someone’s feelings, the kind thing to say is this.

I am sorry