What is one way to ensure that you and your friend are communicating effectively?
Be honest, listen, ask questions
Your friend gets angry when you talk to your other friends. What type of relationship is this?
Toxic Relationship
Is conflict the same thing as fighting?
No
Which mode of communication gives you the most information?
in-person/face-to-face
What is something you should notice or pay attention to when having a conversation with your friend? (hint: ______ communication)
Nonverbal communication
Your friend supports your interests and passions by attending events that you are involved in (ex: musical concerts, sporting events, or community service events). What kind of relationship is this?
Healthy Relationship
What is one way you can avoid making your friend defensive when talking about a difficult issue?
Use "I" statements, talk about your own feelings, try to understand where the other person is coming from, avoid accusing the other person
What are some signs that you are not communicating effectively with your friend?
Not feeling comfortable or being afraid to express wants, needs, fears, etc.., or dreading/avoiding conversations about difficult topics
Your friend makes you feel like every problem in your relationship is always your fault. What type of relationship is this?
Toxic Relationship
What is something you can do to ensure that you are taking care of yourself and keeping your sanity in a relationship?
Keep balance in your life (ex: between friends, family, school/classes, work, and other activities)
What is the key to many successful relationships that helps to navigate conflict and happy times?
Communication
Your friend is constantly keeping tabs on what you are doing and who you are with. What is lacking in this friendship?
Boundaries
What are some things that can turn a conflict into a fight?
Making threats, giving ultimatums (ex: Do this, or else!), accusing without listening, not being willing to apologize or take the blame, getting physical with your partner/friend
You start off with a solid foundation for a healthy relationship with your friend. What is something that you can acknowledge that will help your relationship grow?
Discuss expectations, have realistic expectations, and realize that relationships and people change (so be flexible!)