RULES
Rules tell other people how you want to be ….. ?
Treated
Red or green flag:
Your boyfriend/girlfriend calls and texts you many times while you are at work.
Red! This is a sign of control
When your parent, relative, or partner hits, slaps, or hurts your body, this is called:
( ) abuse
Physical abuse
Friend or Acquaintance:
Supervisor
Acquaintance
You should never share your passwords - someone could change your information online or get you into trouble.
Give an example of a rule having to do with personal space
I need at least three feet of personal space
I need an arm's length of space
etc.
Red or Green:
Your boyfriend or girlfriend posts pictures of you online without your permission
RED - ALWAYS ask for permission before posting or sharing pictures
When your boyfriend or girlfriend calls you stupid and worthless, this is called:
( ) Abuse
Verbal/Emotional
Friend or Acquaintance:
Someone you enjoy spending time with outside of school
Friend
Someone you've been talking to online who you've never met asks you for your credit card information or social security number. What should you do?
This is a type of financial abuse. The person online is trying to steal from you. Even if you feel close to this person, you should NEVER give out your personal information online.
Is there a limit on how many personal rules you can have?
nope!
Red or Green Flag:
Your boyfriend or girlfriend asks you if it's ok to hold your hand
GREEN - Asking = Getting Consent
Give an example of financial abuse
Friend or Acquaintance:
Palm Tran Driver
Acquaintance:
Your boyfriend or girlfriend got mad at you and posted an embarrassing picture of you online. Is this abuse? why or why not?
How should you talk to other people and how should other people talk to you?
With kindness and respect (other answers may vary)
Red or Green Flag -
An acquaintance kisses you at school and without consent
Explain
True or False:
An example of sexual abuse is if a coach or other adult tries to touch your body or kiss you
TRUE
Friend or Acquaintance:
Someone you've only met online and never in person
Acquaintance
What information should you never share online:
phone number
address
credit card info
social security number
What could you say to someone who does not respect your “no touching” rule?
Explain: I've told you my rule, if you cannot respect it, then we cannot be friends.
"Please respect my personal space"
"I need you to back up a bit"
Red or Green Flag:
Your supervisor asks you for a hug and kiss after work
RED - This is not ok! Supervisors should NEVER expect to hug or kiss their employees.
What should you do if someone is abusing you at home?
Tell a teacher, coach, or trainer.
Friend or Acquaintance:
Someone you grew up with and have gone to the movies with
Friend
Cyberbullying is bullying that happens through digital devices such as phones or computers. It often happens over social media, text, email, instant messages, and gaming. Cyberbullying often takes the form of sending or sharing harmful or mean content about someone to embarrass them. This can cause the victim to feel depressed or even like their life isn't worth living. Always report cyber bullying and NEVER participate in cyber bullying.