Healthy Relationships include which of the following?
a) Going through eachothers phones
b) Keeping constant tabs on your partner
c) Always being together
d) Having friends/ interests outside of the relationship
d) Having friends/ interests outside of the relationship
You feel like it is your duty to protect your partners reputation or cover up their mistakes. GL or RL?
RED Light- it is ok to support your partner but boundaries must be set for taking responsibility for one's own actions.
Partner encourages you to pursue your goals.
__Healthy- support and encouragement to pursue positive & productive goals are keys to a healthy relationship
__unhealthy
Is it ok if your partner does not introduce you to their family within the first few months of dating?
Yes. In fact that is a reasonable amount of time.
Your partner does not like when you interact with other people when you go out, GL or RL?
RED Light- jealousy
You make your partner feel like every problem is their fault.
Unhealthy- important for each partner to own up to their own mistakes
Conflict & Fighting are the same
FALSE- conflict can be a difference in opinion that can be dealt with positively. Fighting may include yelling and insults.
How may the way you feel about yourself effect your relationship?
If you view yourself in a positive way this may help you to be a good partner / attract a good partner.
Your partner hates sports but comes to all your games to cheer you on, RL or GL?
GREEN Light- supporting you in your interests is healthy!
Your partner wants to know where you are at all times.
Unhealthy- communication is important however keeping tabs may be a feeling of possession over the other and insecurity
Healthy relationships include which of the following?
a) sharing feelings
b) laughing together
c) doing things you enjoy together
d) all of the above
d
all of the above are indicators of a healthy relationships
A key skill in healthy relationships involves talking things out and sharing information and opinions with each other. What is this skill?
Communication
One partner is constantly accusing other of cheating, RL or GL?
RED Light- insecurities are unhealthy in a relationship
You feel as is you can be yourself around your partner.
Healthy- important to feel comfortable with your partner
Being aware of unhealthy patterns means you are looking for them.
FALSE- being aware helps to keep the relationship on track and safe
Do healthy relationships just happen?
NO- healthy relationships require work and effort from both parties involved.
"The Golden Rule" known as treating people the way we would want to be treated can be referred to as?
Respect
Your partner argues with you in front of all your friends, RL or GL?
RED light - disagreements are okay in relationships when they're dealt with respectfully.
You both look forward to being together.
__healthy- a good indicator if you feel happy and excited to be with your partner
__unhealthy
You can:
a) change your partner
b) change yourself
c) expect change
b
We can only change and control ourselves.