Healthy vs unhealthy relationships
What are the characteristics of a healthy relationship?
Respect, Trust, Honesty, Equality, Support, Safety
Giving encouragement or a shoulder to cry on
Support
What proportion of women experience violent or abusive relationships?
1 in 4
Telling you what to do, how to dress, where to go. Having to ask permission to do things
Control
Who experiences relationship abuse?
Anyone - regardless of gender, age, sexual orientation, and the seriousness of the relationship - can experience relationship abuse
What are the characteristics of an unhealthy relationship?
Lack of respect, intimidation, control, violent behaviour
Compromise
What proportion of men experience violent or abusive relationships?
1 in 6
All problems or arguments are your fault, feelings of guilt
Blame
Who is most likely to witness an abusive relationship?
Children, friends, neighbours
Being able to do the things you want to do and be the person you want to be
Autonomy/independence
Which age group is most likely to suffer abuse from a partner?
16-19 year olds (young people)
Making fun of appearance, ability, aspirations or hobbies
Criticism
What should you do if a friend tells you they are in an unhealthy relationship?
Be sensitive and do not judge them, encourage them to ask for help, report it to someone if you believe they are in immediate danger
How many women are murdered by their partner each year? (Uk Femicide Census, 2018)
Over 100
Causing rows or upset in order to affect college work, attendance, part-time job, etc
Sabotage
Name 4 people/places you can go to for support regarding unhealthy relationships at college
Personal tutor, subject tutor, safeguarding team, student services
Not allowed to spend time with friends or see other people
Isolation
What are the warning signs of an unhealthy relationship?
Signs of physical harm, Becoming withdrawn, isolating themselves from others, Reluctance in talking about relationship, Seem to be scared or fearful of their partner, Lack of independence – talking about “asking permission” to do things, Low self esteem