Green Flags
Red Flags
Boundaries
Myth or Fact
Self
100

Name 3 characteristics that makes a relationship healthy.

Mutual respect, Safety, Communication, Compromise, Equality, Independence, Support, Privacy, Etc.


100

When one dating partner makes all of the decisions and tells the other what to do, what to wear, or who to spend time with.

Controlling 

100

These are set to make sure you are mentally, emotionally, and physically okay.

Healthy Boundaries

100

Not all communication is verbal

Fact

100

Lack of confidence about oneself.

Low Self-Esteem

200

Name 3 benefits of having a healthy relationship. 

Less stress, Longer life, Healthier Behaviors, Better healing, etc.

200

When someone lies to or keeps information from the you.

Dishonesty

200

Name two types of boundaries. 

Physical, Emotional, Financial, Intellectual

200

Women cannot be abusers 

Myth

200

It is important to learn to manage this uncomfortable mental experience that can occur when we worry or stress over things.

Anxiety

300

What is it called when each person values who the other is and understands the other person's boundaries.

Mutual Respect

300

When someone uses force to get his or her way (such as hitting, slapping, kicking...)

Physical Abuse

300

How can you create good boundaries 

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300

Domestic Abuse is caused by excessive alcohol or the use of drugs.

Myth

300

This emotion can have us feeling extreme sadness, loss of interest in things, poor appetites, and insomnia/over sleeping

Depression

400

This builds trust and strengthens the relationship

Honesty

400

When someone tries to control aspects of the other's life by making the other partner fearful or timid.

Intimidation

400

How can you eliminate unhealthy boundaries 

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400

Happy couples NEVER argue or have disagreements. 

Myth

400

It is essential to learn to eliminate this negative emotion which stems from holding on to anger and grudges.

Resentment

500

The relationship feels balanced and everyone puts the same effort into the success of the relationship. You don’t let one person’s preferences and opinions dominate, and instead, you hear each other out and make compromises when you don’t want the same thing. You feel like your needs, wishes and interests are just as important as the other person’s. Sometimes you might put in more (money, time, emotional support) than your partner, and vice versa, but the outcome always feels even.

Equality

500

Your partner requires constant check-ins and wants to know where you are and who you are with at all times

Emotional Abuse

500

Is going through someone's phone breaking boundaries

No it's wrong

500

Good relationships are easy and do not require work.

Truth

500

Sometimes addiction can be directly linked to deeply disturbing or distressing experiences that occurred earlier in life all of which is referred to as:

Trauma/PTSD