Unhealthy
Often the first stage in an abusive relationship (that repeats itself) where everything is fantastic and there are no problems or disagreements.
What is the Honeymoon Stage?
Crosses from professional to personal. Humans care about private ownership.
What are physical boundaries?
Max is angry over his neighbor parking in his spot so he bangs on the door and demands they turn the music down or he will come back and do it himself.
What is aggressive communication? Max did not reason with his neighbors, he demanded what he wanted and then threatened them.
The process of solving a disagreement in a manner that satisfies everyone involved
What is conflict resolution?
A behavior that communicates respect for yourself and others and is the best form of communication.
What is Assertive Communication?
The stage in an abusive relationship where control and isolation begin to occur.
What is the Tension Stage?
Personal space affects two types of boundaries.
What are physical and emotional boundaries?
Jill invited her friend to lunch but her friend said she had to babysit. Jill later saw her friend outside the movie theater. When Jill saw her friend later that week, she didn't mention anything and brushed it off as "maybe the parents changed their mind"
What is passive communication?
Jill did not express her emotions to her friend. She runs the risk of building resentment against her friend over time.
The use of communication and often compromise to settle a disagreement
What is negotiation?
You tell your friend that you can not wait for this weekend to be able to see them. Your friend responds by telling you that they can not wait either and they ask you what you would like to do together.
What are similar beliefs and values in a healthy relationship?
What is mutual respect?
The stage where physical, verbal and emotional abuse occur.
What is the Abuse Stage?
Fill in the blank: An example of a healthy boundary is having high____-_____ and self-_____.
What is self-esteem and self-respect?
Failure to understand something correctly
What is a poor communication?
Process in which specially trained people help others resolve their conflicts peacefully
What is mediation?
The willingness of each person to give up something in order to reach an agreement.
What is Compromise?
Any relationship where someone is isolated, controlled, or intentionally harmed physically, verbally or emotionally.
What is an Unhealthy/Abusive Relationship?
My protection against not only how others talk to me, but how my ideas and perceptions are valued by others
What are intellectual boundaries?
Sarah asked her partner to empty the dishwasher. They responded "I'm happy to help you with the dishes, I do everything else around here anyway"
What is passive-aggressive?
Her partner didn't not come out and clearly state that they feel like the chore management is being equally done between them, but rather share their feelings with a rude remark.
Respecting the privacy of both parties and keeping details secret
What is confidentiality?
You are getting text messages very late from one of your friends while you're trying to sleep. You message them back and ask them to please stop messaging you at such a late time as you are trying to sleep. Your friend tells you, "Oh, sorry! I didn't realize you would be asleep, I will stop doing it!"
A relationship built on mutual trust, acceptance and common interests or values.
What is Friendship?
When your significant other tries to cut you off from your family and friends so you only spend time with them.
What is Isolation?
My inability to say no due to fear of being rejected or abandoned by the group
What are unhealthy boundaries?
To embarrass, make guilt, disgrace, or feel unworthy.
To find fault; condemn.
What is shaming?
What is blaming?
Students trained to help other students find fair resolutions to conflicts and disagreements
What are peer mediators?
A statement that expresses your feelings but does not blame or judge the other person.
What is an "I" Message?