Vocabulary
What is consent?
Approval for sexual activity that is sober, freely given, and fully informed.
A close relationship in which the people involved have emotional closeness but do not have romantic closeness and do not engage in sexual activity such as sexual intercourse or making out.
What is this? Friendship, Hang-out, or romantic?
Friendship
"I could really use something nice in my life...maybe if I stand here and smile, she’ll give me the prize for being a nice person."
This is an example of what type of communication?
Passive communication
What's Ms. Chelsea's favorite color?
Purple
My grades would be better if I spent more time on my homework.
Is this message constructive or deconstructive?
Constructive
Any type of aggressive pressure or intimidation that involves unwanted sexual attention, behavior, or obscene remarks is considered to be _______.
Sexual harassment
Choose the unhealthy relationship characteristic. Explain why this is unhealthy.
A. Your partner wants to know exactly where you are all the time.
B. You feel closer to the person as time goes on.
A
_____________ communication is when someone expresses their feelings, needs, or desires in a hostile manner, with no regard for other people’s feelings, needs, or desires.
Aggressive
Where is Ms. Chelsea from?
Virginia
S________
Measurable
Attainable
Relevant
Specific
Define intersex.
A person with a set of sexual anatomy that doesn’t fit within the labels of female or male
List the missing word. Honest, Equality, Respect, R______.
Responsibility
How can you advise the person below to use assertive communication?
Dear Malika,
I am a 14-year-old who’s in the 8th grade. I like to read, swim, and play basketball. What I am not interested in is sex. However many of my friends are interested! They are always talking and joking about it—including Riley, one of my teammates who I REEEEEAAALLLLLLLY like! The other day I got a message from Riley on my phone, asking me out to a movie. I haven’t responded yet, bcuz I don’t know what to say. I’d like to go out with Riley but I don’t want to have sex. I want to wait until I’m AT LEAST in college, or doing something better with my life besides middle school. What should I say?
Signed, Bound for a Better Future
You can agree to going to the movies, but while you are on the date, ask what Riley is looking for in a relationship. Let Riley know what you are looking for as well. Tell Riley that you like them, but you want to take the relationship slow.
How many siblings does Ms. Chelsea have?
2
What are the official colors for Girls Inc?
Red and white
What is this a definition for?
The type of sexual, romantic, physical, and/or spiritual attraction one feels for others, often based on the gender relationships between the person and the people they are attracted to; often mistakenly referred to as “sexual preference”.
Sexual orientation
Your partner's love language is acts of service. How can you best support your partner when they are stressed about finishing their college applications?
Cook for your partner, tidy up their room, do their laundry, take their car to get some gas, start a bath for them to relax, etc.
Assertive communication is ___________________.
When someone expresses their feelings, needs, or desires in an open and direct, but respectful manner.
What's Ms. Chelsea's last name?
Dade
Name all three of Beyonce's children's names.
Blue Ivy
Rumi
Sir
What is gender identity?
How you, in your head, define your gender, based on how much you align (or don’t align) with what you understand to be the options for gender.
One way you know that you are not ready for sex is if you are being sexually coerced. What is sexual coercion?
Using pressure—including intimidation, blackmail, drugs and/or alcohol—to influence someone’s decision to have sex.
Tyler and Talia are talking on the phone late at night. Tyler wants Talia to send him a picture with her shirt off, but Talia says that she feels uncomfortable sending him something so personal. She is pretty emotional, and has trouble sounding strong. He responds very sweetly and lightly, saying how much he cares for her, and would never do anything to hurt her. On the phone, Tyler says “Hey…are you a baby or my woman?”
How can Talia respond assertively to Tyler?
"Tyler, I don't want to do that. I need you to respect that that makes me uncomfortable. By continuing to ask me, you are showing me that you don't care about my feelings and that makes me not want to be in the relationship anymore. I think we should hang up the phone and talk tomorrow."
What's Ms. Chelsea's middle name?
Danielle
When was Girls Inc created?
1864