Love Languages
Which of the following is NOT one of the 5 Love Languages?
A. Words of Affirmation
B. Quality Time
C. Emotional Support
D. Physical Touch
C. Emotional Support
They respect your boundaries when you say no or ask for space.
A. đźš© Red Flag
B. đź’š Green Flag
C. ⚠️ Yellow Flag
B. đź’š Green Flag
Setting boundaries means you are:
A. Being selfish
B. Creating distance
C. Communicating your needs and limits
D. Ending the relationship
C. Communicating your needs and limits
What is one way to ensure that you and your partner/friend are communicating effectively?
Be honest, listen, ask questions
What is one way you can avoid making your partner/friend defensive when talking about a difficult issue?
Use "I" statements, talk about your own feelings, try to understand where the other person is coming from, avoid accusing the other person
True or False: Your love language is always the same throughout your entire life.
A. True
B. False
B. False
They check your location, social media, or phone without your permission.
A. đźš© Red Flag
B. đź’š Green Flag
C. ⚠️ Yellow Flag
A. đźš© Red Flag
Which is an example of a healthy boundary?
A. “If you loved me, you’d do this.”
B. “I need time alone tonight to recharge.”
C. “You’re not allowed to hang out with them.”
D. “I’ll do anything, so you don’t leave.”
B. “I need time alone tonight to recharge.”
What is something you should notice or pay attention to when having a conversation with your partner/friend?
Nonverbal Communication
Where can you go, on campus, to work on communication skills, either individually or with your partner/friend?
Acceptable Answers:
- Counseling Center
- Relationship and Sexual Violence Prevention Center (RSVP)
- Wellness Resource Center
Which love language emphasizes thoughtfulness over monetary value?
A. Quality Time
B. Physical Touch
C. Receiving Gifts
D. Words of Affirmation
C. Receiving Gifts
They avoid difficult conversations and shut down whenever there’s conflict.
A. đźš© Red Flag
B. đź’š Green Flag
C. ⚠️ Yellow Flag
C. ⚠️ Yellow Flag
A partner respecting your boundaries usually looks like:
A. Agreeing once but repeating the behavior
B. Listening, adjusting, and not taking it personally
C. Becoming distant or passive-aggressive
D. Arguing until you give in
B. Listening, adjusting, and not taking it personally
What are some signs that you are not communicating effectively with your partner/friend?
Not feeling comfortable or being afraid to express wants, needs, fears, etc.., or dreading/avoiding conversations about difficult topics
If your love language is Physical Touch but your partner’s is Quality Time, a healthy approach is to:
A. Expect them to meet all your needs
B. Compromise and intentionally show love in both ways
C. Ignore your own needs
D. Decide you’re incompatible
B. Compromise and intentionally show love in both ways
Which statement is most accurate?
A. Everyone gives and receives love the same way
B. Love languages only apply to romantic relationships
C. Understanding love languages can improve communication
D. Love languages determine if a relationship will succeed
C. Understanding love languages can improve communication
They pressure you to move faster than you’re comfortable with (emotionally or physically).
A. đźš© Red Flag
B. đź’š Green Flag
C. ⚠️ Yellow Flag
A. đźš© Red Flag
You feel uncomfortable but can’t explain why. What should you do?
A. Ignore it
B. Assume you’re overreacting
C. Pause and explore that feeling—it may signal a boundary
D. Let the other person decide
C. Pause and explore that feeling—it may signal a boundary
What is something you can do to ensure that you are taking care of yourself and keeping your sanity in a relationship?
Keep balance in your life (ex: between a relationship, friends, family, school/classes, work, and other activities)
What is something you can do to cool down during a disagreement?
Take a time-out from the disagreement or limit your discussion time
Why is it important to know someone else’s love language?
A. To change who they are
B. To avoid conflict
C. To express love in a way they best receive it
D. To test relationship compatibility
C. To express love in a way they best receive it
They communicate when they’re busy instead of disappearing without explanation.
A. đźš© Red Flag
B. đź’š Green Flag
C. ⚠️ Yellow Flag
B. đź’š Green Flag
Which statement is most accurate?
A. Boundaries push people away
B. Healthy relationships don’t need boundaries
C. Boundaries help relationships feel safer and more respectful
D. Boundaries mean you don’t care
C. Boundaries help relationships feel safer and more respectful
What is the key to many successful relationships that helps to navigate conflict and happy times?
Communication
What is an off-campus resource you can utilize if you are experiencing domestic violence or sexual assault?
True North of Columbia