Relationships
Relationships develop and change over time. Somtimes this means you become closer and sometimes, it means you can grown apart.
(True or False)
What is TRUE
This healthy relationship characteristic allows you to depend on someone, knowing they will be honest with you.
What is TRUST?
Your boundaries will probably be exactly the same with every person you know.
(True or False)
What is FALSE?
Boundaries keep us ______________
What is SAFE?
I have hands, but cannot clap
What is a CLOCK
This is the most important relationship you have.
What is YOU?
This characteristic is always unhealthy and if you are expereincing it, you may need help/support.
What is ABUSE
The more you know a person, the more your boundaries increase
(true or false)
What is FALSE
Trying to control who your friends spend time with is an example of a __________ relationship
what is UNHEALTHY
I have to be broken before I can be used
What is an EGG?
Leonard is obsessed with Lebron James, but they have never met.
(hint: think of the relationship circles).
What is a STRANGER
DAILY DOUBLE
Decide how many points this question is worth (0-the total of your team's points).
Answer this question without help.
List 5 characteristics of a healthy relationship.
Mateo is a thirsty guy. Unfortunately he always forgets his water bottle and will drink from his friend's bottle. This boundary is being breached.
What is MATERIAL BOUNDARIES
Saying "no" to someone who makes you feel uncomfortable is an example of setting a ______________
What is a boundary
The more you take away, the bigger I become
What is a HOLE?
This professional knows a lot of strange and intimate details about you, but you know little about them.
(hint - think of the relationship circles)
What is a PERSON WHO HELPS or HELPING PROFESSIONAL
Sometimes, healthy relationship have unhealthy moment. This may help you figure out if your relationship is healthy or unhealthy.
What is HOW YOU FEEL, your GUT FEELING
Sometimes you feel like hugs and sometimes you hate them. This boundary can shift throughout the day.
What is a PHYSICAL boundary
Conflict happens in _________________ and ________________ relationships
what is HEALTHY and UNHEALTHY
The minute you say my name, I am broken
What is SILENCE
Unlike friendships, these are relationships we often do not get to choose, but they still have significant influence over our lives.
What is FAMILY
Joan and Sam had a big argument. Both were very angry with each other. Instead of saying hurtful things, they decided to take some time to calm down. Later, Sam approached Joan so they could talk about what happened. They both listened to each other's feelings, took responsibility for their actions, and worked together to solve the problem.
What is a HEALTHY relationship
There are many reasons why someone might not communicate their boundaries in a healthy relationship. These 3 reasons could be why.
what are: FEAR OF JUDGEMENT, PEER PRESSURE, FEAR OF LETTING SOMEONE DOWN, EMBARRASSMENT, UNSURE WHAT YOUR BOUNDARIES ARE
Bartholomew and Bob have been best friends for years. Recently, Bartholomew has been getting upset whenever Bob hangs out with other friends. He tells Bob that if he really values their friendship, he shouldn't need anyone else. Slowly, Bob stops joining group activities, avoids his other friends, and spends all his time with Bartholomew because he doesn't want to upset him.
By pressuring Bob to distance himself from his other friends, Bartholomew is demonstrating an unhealthy relationship behaviour called __________.
What is ISOLATION
I can be caught, but I cannot be thrown
What is a COLD?