Boundaries
Who choses your boundaries?
You do!
Everyone!
Name one quality that is in an unhealthy relationship
jealousy, guilting, manipulation, belittling, deflecting responsibility, intensity
What is abuse?
Hurting someone else on purpose.
A boundary is...
a limit
our personal space / bubble
what is and is not okay
Name one quality that is in a healthy relationship
respect, communication, kindness, fun, equality, ect.
Yes!
What is a type of abuse?
physical, emotional, mental, verbal, sexual
No! They depend on how a person feels during a situation or with a certain person
Can healthy relationships have unhealthy moments?
Yes, all relationships can and will change.
How do you fix an unhealthy relationship?
communication, enforcing boundaries, making changes
What can we do if we are being abused?
Tell someone / ask for help
What can we do if someone is disrespecting our boundary?
ask them to correct their behavior
talk to someone about what is happening
How can we communicate in a healthy way?
no yelling
no name calling
staying calm and kind
No! Healthy relationships will have unhealthy moments, but that can be fixed.
How does abuse make someone feel?
embarrassed, ashamed, scared, hurt, depressed, anxious
Name one type of boundary that we can have.
physical
emotional
material
time
What is consent?
Permission to do something
If someone continues unhealthy behaviors, do we have to stay with that person?
No! We can end relationships if they are not good for us
Can abusive relationships be fixed?
No. Abusers do not care that they are hurting us, so they won't care to change their behaviors.