Healthy Relationship Qualities
Independent
True or False
Red Flags
Safety
100

You can talk about your needs and wants while also respecting your partners'

Effective communication

100

Activity that you are interested in and enjoy doing

hobby

100

Healthy relationships should be fun

True! Healthy relationships make us feel good about ourselves and appreciated for who we are. 

100

Examples of red flags in a relationship

-rude/mean/disrespectful to you and others

-insecure in themselves and constantly wanting attention

-doesn't apologize or admit when they are wrong 

-tries to pick fights 

-emotionally insensitive or unavailable 

100

Who can you reach out to if you feel unsafe in your relationship

Family, friends, teacher, case manager, therapist, etc.
200
You try to understand your partner's perspective and feelings, even if you do not agree with them.

Empathy

200

It is important to spend time _________, even if your partner is not interested in them. 

Participating in hobbies/activities you enjoy

200

It is okay if your partner wants to know where you are at all the time.

False: Constantly wanting to know where your partner is by texting, calling, and following them is unhealthy. Unhealthy relationships have trust and communication.

200

Your partner goes through your phone, bags, and other personal items without your permission.

Violating your privacy.

200

When one person voluntarily agrees to do something another person asked of them; to give permission

Consent 

300

Your partner and you spend time together and apart. Some of your needs are met outside the relationship.

Balance

300

Your partner wants to make all the decisions in your relationship. They tell you what to wear, how to act, and who to talk to.

Limiting your independence/controlling you

300

Jealousy is a sign of love

False: Some may see jealousy as being protective of their partner, but it can be about power, control, and manipulation. 

300

Your partner makes you feel like you have to choose between them and your family members/friends. 

Isolation

300

Something you should do to make sure you're safe when going on a first date 

-Let a trusted family member of friend know where you are going and who you are meeting up with

-Meet in a public area during the day

-Have your own way of getting to the date 

400

You feel like you can tell your partner how you are feeling and you believe what your partner tells you 

Trust and honesty

400

Limits we set for ourselves in relationships

Boundaries

400

If someone is under the influence of alcohol or drugs, they cannot consent to sexual activity 

True; a person has to be sober to give consent

400

Your partner says they are going to harm you or others if you break up with them. 

Threatening/controlling

400

Number you can call if you are in an unhealthy/unsafe relationship 

800-799-7233 or 911 in an emergency 

500

Accepting your partner and feeling like your partner accepts you for who you are, even if you make mistakes 

Mutual acceptance 

500

What is one hobby you like to participate in? :)

open answer!

500

It is okay if your partner threatens you as long as they don't physically hurt you

False; it is never okay to threaten a partner 

500

When someone tries to make you feel crazy, like you are overreacting, or that your feelings and not valid

gaslighting 

500

Places in the community that have a yellow sign and provide safety for youth in unsafe situations

Safe Place