S.T.A.M.P. Out Bullies
Healthy
Behaviors
Hollywood
Myths
Anger Management
Red
Flags
100
Studies show these people need help, if not they have more court convictions, more anti-social behaviors, more mental health problems, and more alcoholism issues as adults.
Who are bullies?
100
Discussing problems, ideas, values, and successes.
What is communication?
100
In reality, healthy relationships take team work by both people. However, in this movie Prince Charming is a hero finds a glass slipper to his ideal love and the two live happily ever after!
What is Cinderella?
100
Unhealthy interactions full of jealousy, disrespect, and anger. May include physical, emotional, mental, and verbal abuse.
What is an Abusive Relationship?
100
Not accepting responsibility for one’s actions.
What is Blaming Others?
200
Cyber bullies attack through technology, such as computers and cell phones. Deleting them is one way of coping, but if you need more help you should do this.
What is Tell Someone?
200
A building block for relationships. Believing someone will be faithful to your feelings and follow through with their actions, without questioning their actions.
What is Trust?
200
This popular musical suggests we should change who we are for love, "and shaping up", but in reality being yourself is key to finding love.
What is Grease?
200
Behaviors such as temperature rise, muscle tension, heart racing, and raging thoughts. Recognizing these can help control your anger.
What are Physical Warning Signs?
200
A stage in most abusive relationships, where one person is kept away from former friend. For example, Katie started dating Jared, since then she no longer spends time with her friends and only sees her family late at night.
What is Isolation?
300
“The world is a dangerous place, not because of those that do evil, but because of those that look on and do nothing.” Is a quote from this famous physicist, encouraging us all to stand up against evil.
Who is Albert Einstein?
300
Listening, trusting, freedom, respect and concern for someone.
What is Love?
300
In this love story, audiences learn a relationships based on a lie can work out, however, being lied to is a big betrayal and very hard to overcome. At first, this bridesmaid is nothing more than another newspaper article.
What is 27 dresses?
300
Fun things such as sports, art, music, dance, and other hobbies that eliminate anger.
What are Positive Outlets.
300
A form of emotional abuse. For example, Brad can't play football with his friends because Sara, his girlfriend wants him to spend all his free time with her. She also gets mad when he wears cologne, because others girls will talk to him.
What is Posseviness or Controlling Behavior or Jealousy.
400
Bullies are people who do not care and are not able to understand another person’s perspective, because they lack this.
What is empathy?
400
The KEY to all healthy relationships. Each person understands who the other person is and accepts each other’s personal boundaries.
What is Mutual Respect?
400
Real love takes time and is a combination of personality and attraction. However, in this 1997 film, Rose falls madly in love with Jack, after a few days based on physical attraction. Unfortunately for them, they hit an iceberg.
What is Titanic?
400
Taking a few seconds to do this will help bring back focus and calm anger.
What is Deep Breathing?
400
Making someone feel down all the time. For example, "you're so ugly, no one would date you!"
What are Constant Putdowns?
500
We practiced this in an excercise by thinking about what you do best and standing up for yourself and saying, "You do not have the right to treat me like that."
What is Project Confidence?
500
Everyone has disagreements, but rather than screaming and yelling, they can be discussed in a healthy way. This consists of taking responsibility, negotiating, working towards a goal, and staying on topic.
What is Fair Fighting?
500
This turbulent relationship full of highs and lows is seen as passion and love, rather than emotionally abusive. After many years apart, Noah, remodels a house, and reunites with Allie.
What is the Notebook?
500
Anger often distorts are thoughts and feelings and is considered irrational. This consists of making choices that result in the most benefit.
What is Rational Behavior?
500
Putting guilt on another and making them feel responsible for their safety, such as, "if we break up, I am going to kill myself."
What are Threats of Self-Harm?