SIGNS OF ABSUE
Boundaries
Trust
100

The person is always bruised 

What is Abuse? 

100

Post a picture without asking if it is OK.

What is non consensual? 

100

Your partner is always hiding their phone, and when questioned about it they dismiss you. 

What is trust issues? 

200

The person is always apologizing for things they can not control.

What is anxiety?

200

Asking to introduce them to friends, instead of surprising them

What is consent?

200

You ask your boyfriend to take out the trash and the say they will.When you get home you see they didn't take out the trash

What is not keeping a promise?

300

The victim is constantly yelled at and insulted

What is verbal abuse?

300

Saying they owe them because you bought them gifts.

What is pressure?

400

The victim lives in constant fear, while the abuser feels safe. 

What is powerless?

400

Saying "I love you" and your partner is not ready to say it. But you are ok with that.

What is acceptance?