true or false
True or False: 7% of middle school students will call the police if they are in an abusive relationship.
true
Does it always have to be physical abuse?
No
What is one boundary you can set to make sure you don't stay in an abusive relationship?
end the relationship right away
What is one boundary you can set to make sure you don't stay in an abusive relationship?
If he/she abuses me in any way then I'll end the relationship right away.
What is a bystander?
Bystanders are people who witness an act of bullying, they stand by and watch
True or False: In a survey done in 2005, 30% of the girls in a relationship said their boyfriend threatened violence if they broke up.
false
What kind of abuse involves money?
financial
At this age (14 & 15 ), is it reasonable to have boundaries?
yes
What is abstinence?
When you chose not to take risky behaviors
are bystanders important
Yes
True or False: If your partner yells at you, or gets very frustrated with you, it is a sign that always says "time to find someone else".
False, just because you may argue doesn't mean you have to leave that person
What kind of abuse involves friends and family?
Social
What are boundaries?
Boundaries are guidelines to protect yourself from an abusive relationship. Or an unhealthy relationship in general
What are boundaries?
Boundaries are guidelines to protect yourself from an abusive relationship.
A _______ is often a bystander.
a friend is often a bystander
True or False: In an abusive relationship, your partner will always be violent.
False
Name four types of abuse.
Mental emotional, social, financial, sexual, spiritual, social media, physical and verbal.
Is infatuation always unhealthy?
no
What are two of your boundaries
Not controlling, understands my values, there is no violence, etc
What is one way you can stop an act of abuse?
Use on of the three D's
True or False: If your partner abuses you, it is usually physically
False. It is just as likely to be emotional or verbal.
How do you help a friend that is being abused in a relationship?
You can ask them questions about their relationship, believe their story, tell them that nobody deserves to be abused, talk to a councilor and point them to resources.
what are two signs of a healthy relationship?
Trust, respect, honesty, etc.
What are the three D's?
The three D's are : Direct, Distract, Delegate