Healthy relationships
What is a healthy relationship?
A healthy relationship is when two people develop a connection based mutual respect, trust, honesty and support.
What is an abusive relationship?
They involve mistreatment, disrespect, intense jealousy, controlling behavior, or physical violence.
What's the difference between a healthy and abusive relationships?
In a healthy relationship you can predict that they will be caring, loving and respectful most of the time.But in an abusive relationship a person uses abuse and control often.
Recognizes understands and expresses emotions, strengths, and values, by recognizing oneself as a lifelong learner
Self-Awareness
How many communication styles have we discussed?
Four
what is not considered a healthy relationship?
Where one of the people in the relationship starts abusing the other, mistreating them, ignoring or treating the other badly and there's lack of trust
Name two sections of the Power and Control Wheel?
Threats / Isolation and exclusion
Peer Pressure / Anger and emotional abuse
Using Social Issues / Intimidation
Sexual Coercion
How can someone tell if their in a healthy or abusive relationship?
There will be no space, your partner might start acting different around you, or you will get abused.
You will be treated with kindness, respect, they will be caring, and actually care about you.
Manages and expresses emotions, sets and achieves personal and academic goals, and perseveres through challenges.
Self-Management
This style of communication avoids conflict, fears rocking the boat, and puts others' need first
Passive
What are signs that show you're in a healthy relationship?
- You admire you partner
- there is trust in the relationship
- You feel accepted for who you are
-Your partner listens and respects you
What are signs that show you're in an abusive relationship?
In a relationship is abuse always considered physical?
False
Empathizes with and respects others' diverse perspectives abilities and culture using positive social and communication skills
Social & Cultural Awareness
________ is a dominant type of communication and expresses needs forcefully
Aggressive
What are some examples of being in a healthy relationship?
A relationship that involves honesty, trust, respect and open communication between partners and they take effort and compromise from both people.
Is isolating someone emotional abusive? Y or N
Y
How do you help a friend that is being abused in a relationship?
You can provide support by referring them to a trusted adult, listen to them, do not judge, and direct them to resources
Builds and maintains positive, respectful, and healthy relationships by listening, communicating, and collaborating
Relationship Skills
This communication style clearly expresses needs/feelings respectfully and values mutual respect.
Assertive
What are the three key fundamental areas of a healthy relationship?
Communication, Equity, and Respect
What is an example of subtle abuse in a relationship?
Hint: movie clip
Criticism
Belittling
Gaslighting
Isolation
Name three types of abuse
Emotional, sexual, physical, and verbal
Makes decisions and takes self-directed action to recognize and connect how decisions impact oneself and the community.
Decision Making
Indirectly expresses negative feelings, may use sarcasm or subtle sabotage
Passive Aggressive