Misc.
What should you do if you are in an unhealthy relationship?
FIND a way TO GET OUT of it....or GO TO a trusted adult for HELP
Tell me 3 questions you could ask someone to get to know them more.
"WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO" "WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO EAT" "Where DO YOU LIKE TO GO" etc.
A girl notices her girlfriend is getting a lot of attention from two different people at school. She goes up to each of them separately and warns them to stay away from her, “or else.” Is this healthy or unhealthy?
UNHEALTHY--YOU DO NOT NEED TO be jealous in a relationship--YOU can HAVE MORE friends!
You are buying candy for your boyfriend or girlfriend and you accidentally buy Kit Kats when they only like Twix. Your partner says thank you, still eats the candy and forgets the mistake you made. Is this healthy or unhealthy?
HEALTHY--It is okay to MAKE mistakes! YOUR partner should NOT GET mad at YOU if you MAKE a mistake.
Your partner has threatened to hurt you or has hurt you. Is this healthy or unhealthy?
UNHEALTHY--IT IS NOT GOOD if your partner hurts YOU is saying they are GOing TO hurt YOU.
Consent is LIKE....
How should YOU FEEL when you are dating someone?
YOU should FEEL GOOD or happy!
A couple has an agreement that they won’t put passwords on their phones and can check each others’ texts and social media accounts whenever they feel like it. Is this healthy or unhealthy?
UNHEALTHY--YOU can HAVE YOUR own privacy, YOU DO NOT NEED TO share ALL of your info with your boyfriend or girlfriend.
You are comfortable around your partner and you can be yourself. Is this healthy or unhealthy?
HEALTHY--IT IS GOOD to FEEL comfortable in a relationship. You can say things you LIKE and DO things YOU WANT TO DO!
Your partner texts you constantly to see where you are and what you are doing. Is this healthy or unhealthy?
UNHEALTHY--YOUR partner DOES NOT NEED TO know where YOU are ALL the TIME or WHAT YOU ARE DOING ALL the TIME.
List 3 trusted adults you can GO TO if YOU NEED HELP in an unhealthy relationship.
Teachers, parents, older siblings, etc.
Dating and GOing ON dates should be....
FUN!!!!!!
Your boyfriend or girlfriend wants to spend time alone with his or her family. Is this healthy or unhealthy?
HEALTHY--IT IS ok TO WANT TO GO be with MORE people than just your partner. IT IS OK TO spend time alone.
You and your partner disagree but you still respect each other's opinions. Is this healthy or unhealthy?
HEALTHY--IT IS GOOD TO TALK about things and be nice TO YOUR partner, even if YOU DO NOT agree.
Your partner suggests going to see holiday lights at an art museum. Even though you aren't sure if you'll like it, you still go and have lots of fun! Is this healthy or unhealthy?
HEALTHY--IT IS GOOD TO HAVE fun ON dates! Even if YOU are NOT sure if YOU will LIKE the date, IT IS GOOD TO trust your partner and LISTEN to their ideas.
DO YOU NEED TO let your boyfriend or girlfriend give you a hug if YOU DO NOT WANT one?
NO, it is YOUR body and it is YOUR choice.
Tell me 3 dates that would be fun!
Going to the movies, shopping at the mall, walking around downtown, etc.
You can both be honest about your feelings and talk about them freely. Is this healthy or unhealthy?
HEALTHY--It is GOOD TO be able to TALK about how YOU FEEL in a relationship!
A couple texts all the time. But when they get together, whether alone or with friends, they feel uncomfortable talking to each other. Is this healthy or unhealthy?
UNHEALTHY--IF YOU DO NOT HAVE chemistry or DO NOT GET along when you're together IN person, YOU might NOT WANT TO date that person.
When you refuse to do give your partner a hug, your partner puts you down and says mean things. Is this healthy or unhealthy?
UNHEALTHY--Your partner should NOT PUT YOU DOWN and say mean things TO YOU. It is OK if YOU DO NOT WANT a hug--IT IS YOUR body and YOUR choice.
WHAT are the different types of relationships YOU can be IN?
dating, relationship with parents & family, friendships, etc.
Define compromise
Meeting in the middle, FINDing something YOU both LIKE
One of you wants to go to the movies but the other wants to go to the mall. You make a compromise and decide on shopping first and then going to the mall. Is this healthy or unhealthy?
HEALTHY--It is GOOD TO MAKE compromises so YOU can both HAVE a GOOD TIME!
You started dating someone a few months ago and they are interested in meeting your friends and family. Is this healthy or unhealthy?
HEALTHY--IT IS a GOOD thing if YOUR partner WANTS TO meet your friends and family. THEY WANT TO learn MORE about YOU!
You have hung out with you friend every day this week and you are a little worn out on Friday. Your friend wants you to come hang out with her at the movies tonight. You tell her that you don't want to hang out tonight because you have seen her a lot this week. Is this healthy or unhealthy?
HEALTHY--IT IS GOOD TO be able TO TALK TO your friend or partner and tell them that YOU DO NOT WANT TO GO OUT every night. IT IS GOOD TO HAVE TIME TO YOURself.