Healthy Relationships
You and your partner, family or friends should view each other as equals
Equality
Unable to talk about difficult topics
Lack of Communication
True or false Healthy Love allows for individuality
True
Looking to others for _____
Self-worth
Includes respecting human beings as unique individuals to include: respect of dignity and seeing value in each other
Respect
Is not a good foundation for any relationship
Dishonesty
Healthy love brings out partners' what qualities
Best
Refuses to...
commit
You should feel comfortable expressing your thoughts, ideas and feelings. You should be able to agree to disagree in a constructive way.
Communication
Includes name calling, breaking boundaries, and constantly questioning and criticizing the other person's choices and decisions
Disrespect
Partners should accept this
Endings
Repeatedly experience of what type of feelings
Negative
Is a key to a healthy relationship. Is established over the course of a relationship through showing consistency in words and actions.
Trust
Being dependent on someone financially, emotionally, or psychologically could indicate an unhealthy relationship
Dependence
You should experience openness to what
Change
Afraid of
Letting go
Affection & Closeness
Risk or change
Not placing blame on others and owning up to mistakes.
Responsibility & Accountability
this becomes unhealthy when it is constant or excessive and becomes about one partner possessing the other
Jealousy
Invites what in the partner
Growth
Frequent playing of
"Power Games"
Encourage others to grow separately and together
Support
Mind games, convincing a partner to ignore their wants/desires/needs and using guilt
Manipulation
Experiences true _______
intimacy
Cares with excessive __________________
Detachment
Is important in a healthy relationship. You can't build a good foundation on lies.
Honesty
Using this to tear the other person down could be a form of emotional abuse
Criticism
Finds this in giving & receiving
pleasure
Needs this to feel secure & happy
Others
Establishing what you are comfortable and uncomfortable with
Boundaries
This is an often used tactic by abusers to make the victims/survivors dependent on them by cutting off their ties to support networks, this increasing their power and control in the relationship
Isolation
Accepts limitations of who
Self & Partner
Tries to
Get something by giving
Change people