Healthy 1
Benny and Kim have been dating for 3 months. Benny learned last week that Kim's favorite flower is a rose. After she has a tough day Benny decides to get a bouquet of roses. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?
Kindess
Jessica and Valerie just started dating. Jessica tells Valerie she doesn't want her to hangout with the LGBTQIA+ center on campus because Valerie has previously dated some of the members.
Isolation
Joanne and Imani recently started going on dates. Joanne has only recently told her family and friends that she is gay. Joanne tells Imani she wants to take things slowly as this is her first time dating another woman. Imani responds that she is happy to take things slowly, and to tell her if things start moving too fast. The two discuss how to best respect each others boundaries including public displays of affection and who knows about their LGBTQIA+ identities. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?
Respect/Comfortable Pace
Charlie has a big test coming up and knows he needs to study. His best friend, Frank, wants him to go to a concert the night before the test. Frank pressures Charlie by saying, "What do you care more about this stupid test or our friendship?" Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?
Guilting
True or False: you have to stay in a relationship unless there are 2 or more of the unhealthy relationship behaviors?
FALSE! (there is no set number of behaviors that defines abusive or unhealthy)
Darius has a huge crush on Adriana but is nervous to tell their mutual friend Jalen. Darius decides to tell Jalen and Jalen never mentions a word of it to Adriana. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?
Trust
All week, Marie and Tyler had plans to hang out after school on Friday. That day, some of the guys ask Tyler to hang out. Instead of talking to Marie about changing their plan, Tyler decides to lie and say he has a doctor's appointment. Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?
Betrayal
Laila and Matt love to hang out. They laugh, let loose, and genuinely enjoy each other's company any time they are together. Laila and Matt make each other happy and know no matter what they can be themselves around each other. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?
Fun
Deandre and Alexis are in a group project together and they decide to split the work in half. When they get their final grade, Deandre realizes that Alexis didn't finish her half of the assignment and as a result they got a 50%. Alexis tells Deandre that he never reminded her to finish her work. Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?
Deflecting Responsibility
FALSE! (Emotional or Sexual Abuse can make a relationship abusive)
Because they enjoy doing different things, Darren and Jose alternate who gets to choose what they do on dates. Their approach allows both Darren and Jose to feel valued and heard. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?
Equality
After Elliot and his partner Blake get into an argument about who should do the dishes, Blake spends the next days using Elliot's dead name.
Belittling/Volatility
Penny is constantly hugging her friends. Her best friend Maggie tells her it makes her uncomfortable. While Penny loves to give hugs, she is understanding of Maggie's boundaries. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?
Respect
Gabby has a crush on Ryan, but he doesn't feel the same way. Gabby tells everyone she HAS to dance with Ryan at the upcoming Homecoming Dance. She asks her teacher and Ryan's friends if they can make this happen. Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?
Intensity
Somebody who intervenes when they see something that is wrong.
Bystander
Jasmine and Hannah are best friends who enjoy working on school projects together. When Jasmine explains that she would prefer to work on an upcoming history project alone, Hannah completely understands. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?
Independence
After a few months of dating, Kim and Max are hanging out alone in Kim's basement. Max keeps trying to take off Kim's shirt, but Kim tells him she doesn't think she's ready for that. Max responds "well if you really love me you're ready". Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?
Jeremy and Matt have been dating for a little while. They like to poke fun at each other sometimes. One day Jeremy makes a joke about Matt's dislike of sports. Everyone laughs including Matt, but later Matt lets Jeremy know how it made him feel. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?
Honesty
Rodrigo and Toni have known each other for a while. Toni knows to never talk around Rodrigo's friends because Rodrigo has a tendency to get really angry over small things. Toni is used to it and doesn't mind this behavior. Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?
Volatility
This is a mutual, and voluntary agreement between two people to do something that both people want to do. What term best describes this?
Consent
Jesse and Alyssa met during the first week of school and have been spending a ton of time together. After hanging out constantly for three days, Jesse lets Alyssa know that he wants to take a break. Alyssa tells him she understands and takes the break as an opportunity to get to know other students in their class.
Comfortable Pace
Ben and Carlos are best friends and have played on the B team for their soccer club for 5 years. When Carlos finds out that Ben might get moved up to the A team, he is upset they won't play together anymore. He tells Ben that he has to keep playing on the B team and not switch. Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?
Sabotage
Ava is angry at Billy because he forgot about their date. Ava doesn't want to say something she doesn't mean and decides to hold off on having a conversation until she has calmed down. Which of the 10 healthy relationship behaviors is this?
Healthy conflict
Jay's parents are having a few of their college friends over for dinner. Throughout the evening, Jay's parents use his dead-name to misgender him. When Jay tries to correct them, his dad whispers, "don't embarrass us in front of our friends". Which of the 10 unhealthy relationship behaviors is this?
Guilting
When something bad happens to someone and others consider it their fault instead of the person who did the bad thing. What term best describes this?