MIND OVER HEART
LOVE AT FIRST TEXT
THE 21ST-CENTURY CRUSH
100

“Don’t try to be someone you’re not — people are more attracted to authenticity.” — NO MORE

According to dating experts, being _____ is one of the biggest turn-ons.  

What is being yourself?

100


This term describes when someone suddenly stops replying to your messages — no explanation, no goodbye.


What is ghosting?

100

This dating app popularized the “swipe right” and became the symbol of 21st-century matchmaking.

What is Tinder?

200

“The strongest couples are the ones who can laugh together.” — Men’s Journal 

According to experts, sharing this emotion strengthens connection and attraction.
 


What is laughter?

200

If someone takes hours to reply but posts on social media in the meantime, you’ve just been left on what?

What is left on read?

200

This phrase describes the phase before officially dating — where two people are “kinda talking.”

What is the talking stage?

300

“One of the most powerful ways for people not to feel deeply alone is for them to feel listened to.” — Esther Perel 

According to Perel, this simple act makes people feel valued and connected.

What is listening?

300

Sending two texts in a row without a reply in between is known as this risky move.

What is a double text?

300

Many modern daters use this word to describe checking a potential partner’s social media history before meeting.

What is Instagram stalking

400

“A first date has less to do with an immediate spark and more to do with creating the right conditions for turning that spark into a lingering flame.” — Esther Perel 

What does Esther Perel say matters more than instant chemistry?


What is building connection over time?

400

You send a thoughtful paragraph, and they respond with a single emoji — this often described someone who is a?

What is a dry texter?

400

This term refers to dating someone specifically because they have a certain social status or online following.

What is clout chasing?

500

“According to studies, couples who do this activity together report higher satisfaction — it’s not scrolling TikTok.” 

It’s not screen time — but what activity builds stronger attraction and happiness?

What is trying new things

500

If someone texts you constantly but never deepens the conversation or plans to meet, they’re guilty of this low-effort dating behavior.

What is breadcrumbing?

500

Couples who coordinate matching outfits or aesthetics for photos are said to be doing this.

What is twinning