Manners
THAT'S AWKWARD
Conversation Maintenance
Perspective Taking
Problem Solving
100
You are eating Thanksgiving dinner with your family and you finish way before everyone else. What do you do?
What is wait patiently and/or talk with others at the table.
100
Your aunt finds a fake nail in her mashed potatoes! How should she react so she doesn't hurt your grandma's feelings?
What is tell her privately or just keep the information to herself.
100

Your family member says that her favorite Christmas movie is Elf. How can you keep this conversation going?

You can ask about why they like the movie. You can ask them what other Christmas movies they like. You can tell them your favorite Christmas movie. 

100
Your grandpa forgot to take the food out of the oven and it burned. How does grandpa feel? How do his guests feel?
What is grandpa probably feels bad and embarrassed while his guests are likely disappointed about dinner.
100
Your dad asks you to heat up the mashed potatoes, but you're not sure for how long and you don't want to ask him in front of everybody. What do you do?
What is call him into the kitchen and ask him privately.
200
Your aunt makes brownies just for you, but she adds walnuts (which you HATE!). What do you tell her?
You thank her for the kind gesture and don't bring up the walnuts.
200
Your little cousin takes your cell phone and shows family members an embarrassing picture of you. What do you do?
What is tell him that he hurt your feelings and you would like your phone back.
200

You really want to talk about video games at the dinner table, but your parent says no. What can you talk about instead?

What is a topic that everyone can relate to

200
Your brother gives your mom a present and she hates it. Tell me how each of them feels.
Mom likely feels somewhat disappointed, but thankful for the gift anyways. Your brother feels sad and disappointed that she didn't like his gift.
200
You go to the mall, but there is absolutely no place to park. What do you do?
What is drive around until a space opens up, park down the street and walk, etc.
300
Your family is sitting in traffic and your little sister will NOT stop talking. What do you do?
What is put in your earbuds to try and block her out OR ask her politely if she can be silent for a little bit.
300

Your friend gives you a present but you don't have a present for them. What should you say?

I'm sorry I don't have something for you. That was so nice of you to get me something!

300

You're having a conversation with your aunt. Name 3 things you should do with your body to show that you are paying attention?



Face towards her, add to the conversation, ask questions, make eye contact, avoid looking at your phone or watch. 

300

Nobody eats your aunts baked beans. How do you think she feels? What do you think she is thinking?

She likely feels upset or feels sad. She might be thinking that no one likes her cooking or that she did a bad job making the baked beans.

300
You are saving up $50 to buy your girlfriend a present, but you are short by $5 dollars. What do you do?
What is ask a family member or friend if you can borrow the money and/or buy your girlfriend a less expensive gift.
400
You are tired of watching football on the television, but your family seems to be enjoying it. What now?
What is ask politely if you can change the channel, ask if you can go into the other room, etc.
400

Two of your friends gave you the same present for the holidays! What now?

What is keep them both and don't say anything, so you don't hurt their feelings. 

400

You are at a party and your friend keeps talking about herself. How long do you let her go on and on and what do you say to her?

What is you let her talk about herself for a little bit and then gradually change the subject to something else.

400
Your little brother peeks and opens up his gifts a day before Christmas. How do you feel?
What is upset/annoyed that he cheated and opened them early OR maybe you don't care at all.
400
Your friend asks you what you want for christmas/hanukkah, but you have no idea what to tell him. What do you do?
What is ask for choices, look online for suggestions, etc.
500

Your grandma is talking in front of bunch of people and you notice that she has something in her teeth. What do you do?

quietly tell her that she has something in her teeth so she is not embarrassed. 

500

Your uncle keeps calling you James when your name is Paul. What do you do?

Politely remind him that your name is Paul. 

500

Name 4 different ways you can tell by someone's body language that they have lost interest in a conversation.

What is arms crossed, lack of eye contact, looking around, short or no responses, slowly moving away from you, keep changing the subject, etc.

500
You borrow your friend's cell phone to take a picture, but someone bumps into you and it falls to the ground and cracks. Yikes! How does everyone in the situation feel?
What is upset, mad, angry, disappointed, apologetic, etc.
500
You're at the mall and you reach for a particular item at the same time as another customer. What do you do?
What is politely give it up, offer a solution (rock, paper, scissors), etc.