Steps to resolving a conflict
Recognize what
What is Your Feelings
During listening your mouth is
What is closed
Pinwheel, count, buzz, figure 8
What is breathing
Make everyone feel
What is happy
You make me feel mad
What is I feel mad
Calm what
What is your body and mind
During listening your mind is
What is open
walk, yoga, play basketball
What is physical activity
Let everyone feel
What is heard
Talk when you feel upset
What is talk when you calm down
Share
What is how you feel
During reflect your repeat
What is what the other person said
Build what in your mind
What is a calm place
Do not create more
What is conflict
Scream in someones face
What is talk calmly
Listen and
What is Reflect
During reflect you have to check to make sure
What is you heard correctly
What kind of thinking
What is empowerment or positive
Always use this tone
What is calm or respectful
Talk to the whole class about the conflict
The last step #6
Reflect back example
What is What I heard you say is you feel ... because...
We did this is 4th grade art with a rainbow
What is weaving
When both people get their way at the end of a conflict
What is a win-win solution
Keep bringing the conflict up after it was settled
What is agree and resolve