scenerios
In a group project, one student takes over the assignment and assigns roles without asking for input. When a teammate suggests a different idea, the student dismisses it and says, “We’re doing it my way because I want an A.”
Competition
Using force or ridicule to get your way
competition
Godly leaders are ____ leaders
servant
true or false you should try to negotiate every time you get pulled over and be disrespectful
false
true or false we should not say I'm sorry you are offended because it point the blame
true
Two friends get into an argument about one of them canceling plans at the last minute. Instead of talking about how it made them feel, one friend stops bringing it up and acts like nothing happened.
avoidance
True or false we should use you statments when talking about how we feel about conflict
false
true or false being a good leader not caring about the people under you
false
Dont suffer in ____
silence
A bad apology can make things
worse
Two siblings want to watch different movies on Friday night. One wants to watch a comedy, and the other wants to watch a thriller. After a short discussion, they agree to watch the comedy this week and the thriller the following week.
compromise
Who made the conflict intrument we learned about today
Kenneth Thomas and Ralph Kilmann
True or false when we are in change we have nothing left to learn
false
no matter what we think we shoud always handle issues with the authority over us with
respect
Don’t make excuses for your
behavior
Two neighbors disagree about a shared fence. One wants a taller fence for privacy, while the other prefers a shorter one so it doesn’t block sunlight. Instead of arguing, they sit down and talk about their concerns. They decide to install a medium-height fence with decorative lattice at the top that provides privacy but still lets light through.
collaboration
what is one trait of an accomidator
The "Giver" Mentality: Gives up their own position to keep the peace.
Passive Approach: Goes along with others.
Relationship-Oriented: Prioritizes keeping the peace at all costs.
You should have ____ ethics than the people you are leading
stronger
The fifth step to handle conflict in unequal relationships is
admitting your wrong
_____ has hurt someone and needs to apologize
everyone
Two friends are deciding where to eat. One really wants pizza, but the other prefers Mexican food. Even though she was looking forward to pizza, the first friend says, “It’s okay, we can go where you want,” and agrees to the Mexican restaurant without arguing
Two friends are deciding where to eat. One really wants pizza, but the other prefers Mexican food. Even though she was looking forward to pizza, the first friend says, “It’s okay, we can go where you want,” and agrees to the Mexican restaurant without arguing
Name all five of the type of ways to handle conflict
Competing Collaborating Compromise Accommodating Avoidance
True or false there will always be someone in charge of you
true
When we have problems with aleader in our lives what should we not do
talk behind their backs
Name the four steps to a good apology
Say exactly what you’re sorry for.
Admit why what you did was wrong.
Say what you will do differently next time (be specific).
Ask for forgiveness.