Guess the Feeling
What's the Need?
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Real life moments
100

Your co-worker ignores you at lunch

Sad/Hurt

100

Someone at work is lonley

Connection/friendship


100

This is stupid, I am not doing it

I am frustrated, can I have help?

100

Your co-worker sits at lunch with someone else.

Feeling: Hurt

Need: inclusion

200

Your Sibling takes something without asking

Angry

200

A co-worker expresses feeling overwhelmed

Help/a Break

200

You never listen to me

I feel ignored can we talk for a minute?

200

A sibling takes something without asking

Respect/boundaries

300

Someone laughs at something you did at work

Embarrassed 

300

Someone interrupts while you are talking

Being heard/listened too

300

Leave me alone

I need some space, can I have a minute?


300

A parent says no to something you wanted to do.

Feeling: disspointed. Do: Express without arguing 

400

You have to finish the laundry before the end of your shift

Worried

400

Someone feels left out of a group chat

Connection/friendship

400

Give that back, its mine!

I feel upset because that belongs to me. Can I have it back please?

400

Someone laughs after you make a mistake

Feeling: Embarrassed. Do: Self-advocacy 
500

Your co-worker asks you to do their job

Annoyed

500

Your boss doesn't listen to your suggestion

To feel heard

500

This is boring

I am having a hard time staying focused, can we try something else?

500

You feel like no one is listening to you in a group

Feeling: Annoyed/left out. Need: Inclusion/self-advocacy