I feel....when...I need...

School

200

The teacher gives you a worksheet. You do not know what to do. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel confused

when I have this worksheet. 

I need help.

400

A peer is standing too close to you. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

*Bonus* if you get it right, take an extra 50 points from any team. 

Example: 

I feel uncomfortable.

when you stand too close to me. 

I need space. 

600

A peer is chewing their food loudly while you are working. The sound bugs you. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example:

I feel upset

when you smack your lips. 

I need you to give me space. 

800

You feel ignored when your two friends make plans without you. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel left out

when you make plans without me. 

I need you to respect our friendship. 

1000

A teacher gives you a lot of homework and you are feeling stressed. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

I feel stressed

when we have too many assignments

I need help knowing what to do. 

Social Media

200

A random person makes a mean comment on your Facebook Post. *Bonus 50 points* Do you respond online?

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example:  Talk to a trusted adult. 

I feel upset

when they left this comment. 

I need help. 

400

You take a photo with a friend. You ask them to not post it online. They post it on Facebook. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel upset

when you posted the picture

I need you to take it down please. 

600

A classmate shares personal information about you online. 

*Bonus 50 points* Do you talk online or in person?

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel upset

when you post my personal information online. 

I need you to delete it/respect what I tell you

800

A friend keeps texting you over and over at night. They get mad at you for not responding. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel upset

when you keep texting me. 

I need you to respect my space/wait for my response. 

1000

A classmate posts about how cute you are online and you are not okay with it. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel uncomfortable 

when you say this online and it's public.  

I need you to take it down. 

Family

200

Your brother always barges into your room without asking. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel annoyed 

when you come into my room without asking. 

I need you to knock first. 

400

Your sibling takes your iPad and uses it without asking. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel angry

when you use my iPad without asking. 

I need you to ask me first please. 

600

Your parents want you to take a class that you do not want to take. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel nervous/uncomfortable 

when you want me to take this class. 

I need you to respect my decision. 

800

Your parent is 20 minutes late to pick you up. They are not there yet. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel worried

when you are not on time. 

I need you to let me know where you are. 

1000

Take 300 points from any team! 

Woo!

Classroom

200

A friend takes your pencil without asking. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel upset

when you take my pencil.

I need you to ask first. 

400

A classmate is playing music loudly when you are trying to study. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel frustrated

when you play your music loudly. 

I need you to turn it down please. 

600

A peer continues to repeat phrases over and over. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel annoyed

when you repeat

I need you to say it one time. 

800

A friend is copying your worksheet in class. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

*Bonus* if you get it right, take 50 extra points from any team

Example:

I feel upset

when you copy my work.

I need you to do your own work. 

1000

A friend keeps interrupting you while you are talking. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example; 

I feel annoyed

when you interrupt me.

I need you to wait until I am done. 

Friends

200

A friend calls you a nickname you do not like. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

I feel uncomfortable

when you call me that. 

I need you to please not call me that. 

400

Two of your friends make an inside joke. You do know get it and are left out. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel left out 

when you tell an inside joke

I need you to include me. 

600

A friend borrowed your jacket, but has not given it back. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel upset

when I do not get my things back. 

I need you to return it. 

800

Your friend keeps canceling plans to hang out at the last minute. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example:

I feel frustrated

when you cancel plans last minute. 

I need you to let me know sooner. 

1000

Tom is joking about Bob's outfit. You do not like how Tom is treating him. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel upset

when you joke about Bob

I need you to respect him. 

Random

200

Take 200 points from any team! 

Woo!

400

A friend makes the same jokes over and over again. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel annoyed

when you say the same jokes. 

I need you to say it once. 

600

You sit at a lunch table with friends. A friend takes your food without asking. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel upset

when you take my food

I need you to ask me first. 

800

You are texting. A friend is looking over, reading your texts. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel bothered

when you read my texts. 

I need you to give me space. 

1000

A friend pressures you to do something you do not want to. 

I feel______

when______

I need______.

Example: 

I feel uneasy

when you pressure me. 

I need you to respect my decision.