Body Clues
Feeling Words
Cool-Down Toolkit
Super Friend Skills
How would you do?
100

Your face turns red/your hands turn into fists/heart beats really fast.

Answer: What is anger?

100

The feeling when you get a brand-new toy or go to a theme park


Answer: What is excitement?

100

Take 3 deep breaths like you are smelling a flower and blowing out a candle.


Answer: What is a breathing exercise?

100

Saying "Good game!" even if your team lost.


Answer: What is good sportsmanship?

100

Someone accidentally bumps into you and knocks your books down.


Answer: What is say "It's okay" / help clean up?

200

Heavy eyes, yawning, and a slow-moving body.

Answer: What is tired/sleepy?

200

The feeling when your friend plays with someone else and leaves you out.


Answer: What is jealousy / left out?

200

Counting backward slowly from 10 to 1 in your head.


Answer: What is counting down to calm down?

200

Inviting a classmate who is sitting alone at lunch to sit with you.


Answer: What is being inclusive / kind?

200

You spill your milk at the dinner table.


Answer: What is tell an adult and ask for a towel?

300

A tight tummy, sweaty palms, or butterflies in your stomach before a test/presentation or even when you get into trouble.

Answer: What is nervous/worried?

300

The feeling when you worked really hard on a drawing and want to show everyone.


Answer: What is proud?

300

Stepping away from a conflict to sit in a quiet area for 5 minutes.


Answer: What is taking a quiet break?

300

Listening quietly while your friend speaks without interrupting them.


Answer: What is active listening?

300

You lose your turn in a video game or board game.


Answer: What is wait patiently for your next turn?

400

Slumped shoulders, looking down at the floor, and crying tears/negative thoughts.

Answer: What is sad?

400

The feeling when a loud noise happens suddenly or the lights go out.


Answer: What is scared / startled?

400

Squeezing a stress ball or hugging a stuffed animal tightly.


Answer: What is using a sensory tool?

400

Asking "Are you okay?" when you see someone crying on the playground.


Answer: What is showing empathy / checking in?

400

A friend takes a toy you were playing with without asking.


Answer: What is use "I" statements ("I was playing with that") or tell a teacher/parent?

500

Feeling tense, restless, or like you want to jump around when you have to sit still.

Answer: What is frustrated / hyper?

500

The feeling when you don't get what you want, but you accept it and stay calm.


Answer: What is flexible / patient?

500

Talking to a trusted adult (parent, teacher, counselor) about your big feelings.


Answer: What is asking for help?

500

Apologizing sincerely when you hurt someone's feelings by mistake.


Answer: What is saying "I'm sorry"?

500

You feel overwhelmed because your room is messy and homework is due.


Answer: What is break the job into small steps or ask for help?