Listening
What's the single best thing you can do to improve family communication?
Talk daily with each family member.
What word should you avoid starting sentences with?
You
What should families spend together?
time
Name a feeling that comes up when speaking to family
Sad, happy, excited, angry, worried, etc.
Besides words, what else communicates?
Non-verbal communication/body language.
What should you do before giving your opinion?
Listen to the whole story
What type of statements should you use instead of blaming?
"I" statements
Name one activity families can do together.
Trips, outings, vacations, religious events, family events
Why should you describe your feelings?
So others understand your needs and opinions.
Why should you ask questions while listening?
To clarify meaning and make sure you understand.
Why is listening as important as talking?
It encourages family members to share what matters most
Give an example of an "I" statement.
"I feel…," "I think…," or "I want…"
What should families have regularly for communication?
A regular place and time to talk
What can happen when people talk about a problem?
They may find a solution or discover the source of stress
What should parents allow children to do while supporting them?
Make mistakes and solve their own problems.
What should you avoid doing while someone is talking?
interrupting
Why do "you" statements often cause problems?
They sound like accusations or invitations to fight.
How should parents treat each child?
Accept each child as an individual.
What three things should family members share?
Thoughts, feelings, needs/desires
What will family members often believe more than your words?
Your face, tone of voice, and posture.
What question can you ask to check your understanding?
Do you mean ___?" or "I understood you to say ___?
Instead of blaming, what should you explain?
How the behavior or situation affects you
What should parents do with teenagers during discussions?
Explain their views and ask for the teen's views
What kind of environment should a family provide?
A safe environment to share feelings, hopes, fears, frustrations, thoughts, and dreams.
What is the overall goal of the communication tips
To improve family communication and relationships.