Keep peace 🕊️ OR speak truth 🗣️
Job 27:5-6 – “I will maintain my righteousness and never let go of it.”
Ask God for peace 🕊️ OR answers 📖
James 1:5 – “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you
Feel it now 😭 OR deal later 📦
Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
Wait patiently OR backup plan 🛠️
Psalm 27:14 – “Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.”
Heal quietly 🌿 OR share 🗣️
Proverbs 20:5 – “The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out.”
Protect your image or your integrity?
Proverbs 10:9 – “Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but whoever takes crooked paths will be found out.”
You’re in a season where nothing makes sense and you can’t see the way forward.
Pause and seek God’s guidance first, trusting He will reveal the path
OR
Take immediate action on your own, trying to figure it out yourself 🛑
Proverbs 3:5-6 – “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.”
Sometimes we avoid emotions because they feel too heavy or uncomfortable.”
Sit with the emotion and face it, inviting God to guide you
OR
Distract yourself or push it aside to stay comfortable
Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
What makes waiting uncomfortable?
Lamentations 3:25 – “The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him…”
Comfort or Growth
Hebrews 12:11 – “No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.”
Be misunderstood 🤐 OR explain yourself
Matthew 5:11 – “Blessed are you when people insult you… because of me.”
Sit with the question ❓ OR rush ⚡
Ecclesiastes 3:1 – “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.”
Be strong publicly 👑 OR honest privately 🤍
2 Corinthians 12:9 – “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
Trust God’s timing 🌱 OR compare 👀
Ecclesiastes 3:11 – “He has made everything beautiful in its time.”
Obedience w/o clarity 🛐 OR clarity first 🔍
John 14:15 – “If you love me, keep my commands.”
“You’re tempted to soften or inflate your story about yourself to be accepted or avoid conflict.”
Be fully honest about yourself, even if it causes discomfort
OR
Downplay or exaggerate your story to be accepted or avoid conflict 🛑
Psalm 15:2 – “The one whose walk is blameless, who does what is righteous, who speaks the truth from their heart.”
What part of life are you trying to control?
Isaiah 55:8-9 – “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord.”
Coping habit keeping you stuck
Romans 12:2 – “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
How has waiting shaped your character?
James 5:7 – “Be patient…until the Lord’s coming.”
Make the decision now, even though it’s scary 😨 OR Wait until you feel completely ready ⏳
2 Timothy 1:7 – “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.”
You’re faced with a situation were standing fully in integrity could cost you relationships, opportunities, or comfort.
Stand fully in integrity, even if it costs you personally
OR
Compromise or soften your integrity to avoid conflict or loss 🛑
Job 27:5-6 – “I will maintain my righteousness and never let go of it; my heart will not reproach me for any of my days.”
You feel a strong fear about a decision or season in life that keeps you from fully trusting God.
Step forward in faith, trusting God even though fear is strong
or
Let fear guide your decisions, staying in control and avoiding risk 🛑
Job 28:28 – “The fear of the Lord that is wisdom, and to shun evil is understanding.”
Face the truth head-on and take the steps God is calling you to
OR
Avoid the truth for now and stay comfortable, even if it keeps you stuck 🛑
John 8:32 – “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
Who would you be if God never rushed you?
Move at God’s pace, trusting that delay doesn’t mean denial
OR
Rush the process out of fear, comparison, or pressure 🛑
Romans 8:28 – “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him.”
You’ve been praying for clarity about a major life direction. The opportunity to act is here, but it feels risky, and you might fail publicly.
This: Move forward boldly, trusting God to guide each step
That: Wait until you feel fully ready, avoiding potential failure
Joshua 1:9 – “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”