GIVE Skill
DEAR MAN
Mindfulness
100

What does the G stand for in the GIVE skill?

Gentle or (be) Gentle!

100

What does the E stand for in DEAR MAN?

Express or Express (clearly)

100

When we're staying mindful, we're trying our best to stay in the _________ moment.

Present

200

When using the GIVE skill, how can we show that we have "interest" in what the other person is saying?

Any of the following answers or something similar:

- Eye contact

-Nodding head

-Body language

200

What does it mean to “Express” in DEAR MAN?

Share your feelings or opinions (e.g., “I feel worried when you don’t text me back”).

200

What can you do if you are trying to practice mindfulness, and a past or future thought arises?

Gently acknowledge the thought and bring yourself back to the present.

300

True or False: The GIVE skill helps you keep relationships healthy.

TRUE

300

True or False: DEAR MAN is used to help get your needs met while keeping relationships healthy.

True

300

Please name 2 examples of when you can use mindfulness outside of group.

Any 2 examples of this will be correct!

400

What does the “E” in GIVE stand for?

Easy Manner

400

What does the “A” in MAN stand for?

Appear Confident

400

What are the 5 senses? 

Sight, hearing, smell, touch, taste

500

Please give an example of when you should NOT "validate" someone (when it wouldn't be effective)

If they provided an example, that will work.

500

Using this, “Your roommate plays music too loud at night," please come up with an example of how to describe the situation to your roommate.

Anything similar to:

“The music has been playing loudly for the past 20 minutes, and I can hear it clearly in my room.” 

500

How can mindfulness skills help us?

Instead of worrying about the past or future, mindfulness helps us focus on right now. 

Help calm us down.