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Healthy or unhealthy? Name 2 characteristics you notice:
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Healthy: enthusiastic, communication, body language, etc.
What is the relationship spectrum?
All relationships are different, but they all generally fall on a spectrum from healthy to unhealthy to abusive.
What is consent?
Giving permission, saying "yes", FRIES
Your best friend has been getting jealous about you meeting new friends, what kind of relationship is this?
Unhealthy
Healthy or unhealthy? Name 3 characteristics you notice:
https://youtube.com/clip/UgkxD4_r86kcMDA-lm49M4RMHSK51Hwq7fYH
Unhealthy: volatility, jealousy, violence, gaslighting, etc.
Name 2 characteristics of a healthy relationship.
Comfortable Pace / Communication / Healthy conflict / Trust / Independence / Respectful / Kindness / Fun!
What are 2 examples of a digital boundary?
Password sharing, posting habits, sexting, etc.
What is one aspects of consent? (hint: F.R.I.E.S.)
F (freely given), R (reversible), I (informed), E (enthusiastic), S (specific)
What is one way that you can support a friend who is in an unhealthy or abusive relationship?
Multiple answers: listen to them, believe them, don't judge them, help them find resources, help them figure out next steps, etc.
Healthy or unhealthy? Name 3 characteristics you notice:
https://youtube.com/clip/UgkxEZNfPPKbeUnnwN3PZTeyCHUxlng743bE
Unhealthy: pressure, threat, manipulation, not taking "no" for an answer, etc.
What are 3 differences between a healthy and unhealthy relationship?
Comfortable Pace / Intensity
Communication / Breaks in communication
Trust / No trust
Respect / Not respectful
Independence / Only spend time together
Healthy conflict / Jealousy or Manipulation
What is a resource that you could tell a friend about if they are in an abusive relationship?
School counselor, local agencies (Response, River Bridge, etc.), national helplines.
Give an example of asking for consent
How do you feel about...
Are you okay with...
Can we...
What are 3 examples of rules you could communicate with someone about "fair fighting"?
No name calling, no swearing, no physical contact, space, volume, etc.
Healthy or unhealthy? Name 3 characteristics you notice:
https://youtube.com/clip/UgkxL2sVAiCgoKFIlFajbjV0E-mu69HUyqV8
Healthy: direct communication, honesty, no pressure added, etc.
What are 2 examples of "red flags" in an abusive relationship?
Harmful communication / Physically hurts or injures / Manipulation / Controlling / Isolation / Pressures or forces / Volatility
What are 2 examples of an emotional boundary?
Saying "I love you", fighting ground rules, identity outside the relationship, can say no, comfortable communicating discomfort, etc.
What could impact someone's ability to give consent?
Intoxication, age, peer pressure, etc.
Someone you ended a relationship with has been texting and calling constantly, leaving gifts for you, showing up uninvited. What is this an example of?
Stalking
Healthy or unhealthy? Name 3 characteristics you notice:
Unhealthy: gaslighting, unclear communication about expectations, role expectations, etc.
What does "healthy conflict" look like?
Fair fighting "rules", able to communicate / stand up for self / accountability / apologizing
What is gaslighting? Give 1 example.
A term used to describe when someone is made to question their own reality, examples: "you're crazy", "I never said/did that"
What does F.R.I.E.S stand for?
F (freely given), R (reversible), I (informed), E (enthusiastic), S (specific)
What are 3 signs that your friend could potentially be in an unhealthy or abusive relationship?
Isolation, physical injuries, defensiveness, fear, withdrawn, unhappy, etc.