Jokes
What kind of party do you throw for a dog's birthday?
You can't find your pencil sharpener. What is the best first step?
A) Yell about it and give up
B) Accuse someone of stealing it
C) Look where you last had it
C) Look where you last had it
A good first step is checking the most likely place first.
You will be given a line from a character in a movie. Name the CHARACTER (Not the movie)
Buzz Lightyear (Toy Story)
Stay quiet, focus on staff, and wait your turn to talk.
Following directions helps everyone to understand what to do. Talking over others will only cause confusion. Telling others to quiet down is just as disruptive as their talking! Be an example and sit quietly, listening to directions!
You only hear part of the instructions for a new activity. What should you do?
Ask staff to repeat it.
Getting the full instructions prevents problems and frustrations later.
What's the best kind of music to listen to when fishing?
Something catchy!
True or false:
New tasks get easier when you do them one step at a time
True
Breaking tasks into steps makes it less overwhelming
You will be given a line from a character in a movie. Name the CHARACTER (Not the movie)
Stitch (Lilo and Stitch)
You disagree with someone during a discussion. Which would you do?
A) Raise your voice to get your point across
B) Say, "I see it differently. Here's my idea."
C) Walk away without saying anything
B) Say, "I see it differently. Here's my idea."
Calm disagreement allows both people to share ideas without conflict!
True or false:
Following directions helps keep people safe
True
Many directions are given to prevent accidents and confusion
What would happen if you threw all the books in the ocean?
It would cause a TITLE wave!
True or false:
If you make a mistake, you can still fix it.
True!
Most mistakes are fixable! Fixing is a part of problem-solving.
You will be given a line from a character in a movie. Name the CHARACTER (Not the movie)
Olaf (Frozen)
You feel embarrassed after making a mistake in front of others. What would you do?
Take a breath, remind yourself mistakes happen, and continue.
Avoiding or lashing out makes it worse.
Why might it be a struggle to follow directions when you are upset?
Strong emotions make it harder to listen and think clearly.
When emotions are high, attention and memory go down. This is why breaks are strongly suggested- so that someone can take some time to calm down and get to a place where they are able to listen and follow directions.
What are you if you go to a ghost's birthday party?
The life of the party!
Your friend keeps interrupting you. What can you say to solve the problem?
"Please let me finish, then you can talk."
It's clear, respectful, and gives a plan for taking turns!
You will be given a line from a character in a movie. Name the CHARACTER (Not the movie)
Skipper (Madagascar)
A staff member corrects you in front of others. You feel embarrassed. What would you do?
Stay calm, accept the feedback, and talk privately later if needed.
Reacting publicly can escalate things. Private conversations are more productive.
True or false:
Following directions means you agree with them.
False
You can follow a direction without agreeing with it.
What's it called when you're singing in the shower and you get soap in your mouth?
You feel angry. What helps you problem-solve better?
A) Tight fists and fast talking
B) Slow breathing and calm voice
C) Threats and aggression
B) Slow breathing and calm voice
Calm body equals calm brain. A calm brain makes better choices!
You will be given a line from a character in a movie. Name the CHARACTER (Not the movie)
Po (Kung Fu Panda)
You feel jealous of someone's success. What would you do?
A) Talk negatively about them
B) Brag about your own successes and ignore theirs
C) Focus on your own goals and successes while praising others for theirs
C) Focus on your own goals and successes while praising others for theirs
Comparing can hurt motivation. Focusing on your own growth is healthier, and celebrating the successes of others is kind.
You're asked to complete one task before taking a break. You want the break RIGHT NOW! What should you do?
Complete the task first so that you earn the break.
What has a spine but no bones?
You and a roommate disagree about TV volume. What is the best solution?
A) Turn it up more'
B) Argue about it
C) Compromise: lower it or use captions/headphones
C) Compromise: lower it or use captions/headphones
Compromise solves the problem without creating a bigger one
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You will be given a line from a character in a movie. Name the CHARACTER (Not the movie)
Mike Wazowski (Monster's Inc)
You realize you hurt someone's feelings. What would you do?
A) Pretend it didn't happen
B) Apologize
C) Blame them
B) Apologize
Taking responsibility repairs trust
How does following directions help you gain independence in the long term?
It builds trust, which leads to more responsibility and freedom.
People give more freedom to those who show they are reliable.
Why did the god of thunder need to stretch his leg?
He was a little Thor!!!
You're upset and want to send a mean text. True or false: Sending that mean text will solve the problem.
FALSE
Mean texts, verbal aggression, threats and anger, only make problems worse. A better solution is to wait, calm down, then communicate respectfully.
You will be given a line from a character in a movie. Name the CHARACTER (Not the movie)
Carl Fredrickson (UP)
You are given feedback that feels unfair. What would you do?
A) Shut down
B) Ask for examples and clarification
C) Refuse to listen
B) Ask for examples and clarification
Asking for clarification turns feedback into learning instead of conflict
A direction changes suddenly. What is the best response?
A) Refuse because it changed
B) Adjust and follow the new direction
C) Complain about it... VERY LOUDLY
B) Adjust and follow the new direction
Flexibility is part of maturity!