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Small Talk
Name that Person
Taking Perspective
Peer Interests
100

You're waiting in line at a busy coffee shop.

What's a small talk question you could ask to the person in line next to you?

  • “Have you tried anything new on the menu lately?”
  • “It’s always packed here—do you come often?”
  • “What’s your go-to coffee order?”
100

Who's practicing driving?

Dylan

100

You made a joke about something personal (like family, appearance, or struggles) without realizing it was sensitive.

How might that make the other person feel? 

They might feel hurt or judged.

100

Who has a big dog?

Alexander J.

200

You’re waiting for your class to start. 

What's a small talk question you could ask the person next to you?

  • “Did you understand the homework from last week?”
  • “Are you taking any other classes this semester?”
200

Who volunteers with horses?

Isaac

200

You created a group chat or planned a hangout and didn’t include someone. 

How might that make the person who was not included feel?

They might feel excluded or think they’re not liked. 

200

Who loves Michael Jackson and is taking drum lessons?

Nicholas

300

You’re at a friend’s birthday party and don’t know many people there. 

What's a small talk question you could ask to another guest?

  • “How do you know the birthday person?”
  • “Have you tried the cake yet?”
  • “I love this music. What kind of music do you like?"
300

Who enjoys anime?

Kimmee & Sasha (bonus for both!)

300

You arrived late to a hangout without letting anyone know.

How might that make your friends feel?

 Friends might feel disrespected or annoyed, especially if they were waiting.

300

Who enjoys watching sports (baseball, basketball, & football)?

Cesar

400

You're having dinner with your family.

What's a small talk question you could ask a family member?

  • “What are you cooking tonight? It smells great.”
  • “How was your day?”
  • “Have you watched anything good lately?”
400

Who enjoys cooking for his family?

Matthew

400

During lunch or a group hangout, you kept talking about your favorite video game, show, or hobby without asking others what they’re into. 

How might that make others feel?

Others might feel bored, left out, or like their interests don’t matter.

400

Who's taking college classes?

Sanjeet and Alex G.

500

You're going for a walk at a park with a group of friends.

What small talk question could you ask?

  • “Been working on any cool projects or hobbies lately?”
  • “Seen any good movies or shows recently?”
  • “This place has a great vibe. Have you been here before?”
500

Who enjoys classical music and photography?

Alexander G.

500

You took a friend's phone charger without asking because you thought they wouldn’t mind.

How might that make them feel?

They might feel disrespected or annoyed, even if they would’ve said yes.

500

Who loves godzilla?

Isaac & Kimmee