Signs of a Healthy Relationship
Red Flags & Unhealthy Signs
Boundaries and Respect
Being a Supportive Friend
Drama or No Drama?
100

Your partner tells the truth, even when it’s hard to hear. 

👉 What healthy sign is that?

Honesty

100

Your partner texts constantly asking where you are and who you’re with. 

👉 Which unhealthy sign is this?

Possessiveness

100

Your friend keeps taking photos of you and posting them without asking first. You feel uncomfortable about it. 

👉 What's a respectful way to handle this?

Show respect & boundaries 

"I'd rather you ask before posting pictures of me."

100

Your friend has been overwhelmed and feeling down lately.

👉 What’s one simple way to show kindness?

Check in with them, invite them to do something fun, ask how you can help them.

100

Your friend gets upset when you hang out with other people but apologizes after realizing they were being controlling.
👉 Drama or No Drama?

A little drama at first — but taking responsibility makes it healthy (No Drama!).

200

You and your friend both feel comfortable taking breaks or hanging out with other people. 

👉 What healthy sign is this?

Independence

200

A friend always blames you when things go wrong, even if it’s not your fault. 

👉 What’s the unhealthy sign?

Deflecting Responsibility

200

Your partner gets upset when you don’t text back right away, even though you told them you’re busy during practice.
👉 What's a respectful way to handle this situation?

Be kind, but honest. Set your boundary. 

"I care about you, but I can't always text right away."

200

True or False: Supporting a friend means keeping all their secrets, even dangerous ones.

False - You should tell a trusted adult if someone's safety is at risk.

200

Your partner scrolls through your phone when you’re not looking “just to make sure you’re not hiding anything.”
👉 Drama or No Drama?

Drama — that’s a lack of trust and privacy (Unhealthy).

300

You and your friend both take turns deciding what to do when you hang out. 

👉 What healthy sign is that?

Equality

300

A friend tries to keep you away from others or makes you feel guilty for spending time with them. 

👉 What sign is that?

Isolation  

300

You’re starting a new relationship, but your partner wants to move really fast — texting constantly, saying “I love you” after a week. 

👉 What healthy sign might be missing, and what's a way to slow things down?

Missing sign: Comfortable Pact

"I like you, but I want to take things slow."

300

What’s a healthy way to check in with a friend who’s been distant?

“Hey, I’ve missed you lately — how are you doing?”

300

Your friend supports your goals, cheers you on, and celebrates your successes.
👉 Drama or No Drama?

No Drama — that’s kindness and equality (Healthy).

400

You and your friend laugh together and enjoy spending time together. 

👉 What healthy sign is this?

Fun

400

Your partner yells or slams things when they’re upset, then says, “You made me do that.” 

👉 What’s the unhealthy sign?

Volatility

400

Your friend keeps pressuring you to skip class but you need the credits. 

👉 What's a respectful way to respond and set your boundary?

"I am not comfortable with that, and if you're really my friend, you will respect my decision."

400

What’s one sign your friend might need help in an unhealthy relationship?

They seem anxious, withdrawn, or afraid of upsetting their partner

400

Your partner says, “If you really loved me, you’d skip your family dinner to be with me.”
👉 Drama or No Drama?

Drama — that’s manipulation and control (Unhealthy).

500

You can be yourself without fear of being judged or controlled. 

👉 What healthy sign does this show?

Comfortable Pace or Respect

500

Someone makes fun of how you look or talk “as a joke,” but it hurts your feelings. 

👉 What’s that a sign of?

Belittling

500

You told your partner you're not comfortable sharing your location on Snapchat, but they keep asking.

👉 How can respond in a way that shows self-respect and sets a boundary?

"I don't share my location with anyone. It's nothing personal, it's just a boundary for me."

500

If your friend apologizes after hurting your feelings, what’s a healthy way to respond?

Acknowledge it and talk about how to move forward respectfully 

"Thank you for apologizing. I hope we can move forward from this as friends again."

500

Your friend jokes about your insecurities in front of others, saying “Relax, I’m just kidding!”
👉 Drama or No Drama?

Drama — that’s belittling, not kindness (Unhealthy).