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What does this mean to you?
Social Ques
Real-world situation
100

Your friends came over to your house for a movie night. One of your friends brought another friend, so there are more people than you had planned. You want to pass out the drinks, but you only have five cans of soda, and you need 6 for everyone to have one. What could you do?

Options : 

(A) Use cups and share the five cans into 6 cups

(B) If available and safe buy another can

(C) They may be fine with drinking something else

Other answers are acceptable

100

After basketball practice, you return to the locker room with your team to shower and change. When you are done dressing, you can't find your shoes. What could you do?

Options:

(A) Thoroughly search for your shoes. Maybe you forgot to put it in your locker. Retrace your steps.

(B) Describe your shoes and ask your team members if they've seen it

(C) Reach out to your coach and tell him your shoes are missing

100

"Always be kind. You never know what someone else is going through." What does this mean to you?

You never know what situations a person is going through, personally or otherwise, so your approach to others should be kind and considerate.

100

You are having difficulty completing homework. What can you do? 

If you attempt to do it independently and are still unsuccessful, you ask a friend or family member who is knowledgeable in that area for an example or minimal assistance to push you onto the right path. What you should NOT do is have them do "your" homework, as that will not help you understand the material 

100

You are at the grocery store, and you realize you don’t have enough money to buy everything on your list. What do you do?

Decide what is most important, take those, and leave the others for a later time.

200

The teacher is giving directions, but your friend sitting next to you keeps talking. You can't hear the directions. What should you do?

(A) Use a quiet signal to them that you want to hear your teacher

200

People who believe that challenges and failures are opportunities for learning and that skills and abilities can be developed through effort consistency have a growth... 

Mindset

200

What does responsibility mean to you?

Doing what is expected of you.

Taking care of others and property.

Being accountable for your work.

Being accountable for your mistakes.

200

You were at school, running in the hallway. You ran past a teacher, and she gave you a look. What kind of look do you think was on her face, and why? What do you think you should do?

Running in the hallways may be against the school rules. Her look may be one of disappointment, and stopping running would be the right approach to take. 
200

An adult you didn't know came onto the playground and asked if you would help look for his lost dog. What would you do?

Walk away from the adult and move to a safe area.


Find a trusted adult and tell them what happened.



300

You really want to invite this new girl or guy to your birthday party, but you have never talked to them before and are worried they will say no. What could you do?

(A) Just ask! Introduce yourself and invite them. Even if they say no, you took a chance in making them feel welcomed and included. 


(B) Send them an invitation with all the details 

300

You are taking a test, and no talking is allowed. You write your answers on paper and your pencil breaks. What could you do?

(A) Raise your hand and tell the proctor what happened.

(B) Use another pencil if you have one


300

What does perseverance mean to you? 

The ability to keep going when things are tough.

Overcoming difficulties.

300

You got home from school really late because you stopped by the river on the way home and threw rocks. When you walked in the door, your mom had a worried look on her face. What does a worried face look like? Why was she worried? What do you think you should say or do?

She was worried because you were late, scared, and not sure what had happened to you.

Be honest about your whereabouts, but ensure that in the future, you inform her whenever you may be running late, 

300

You notice that a woman is walking by, and $20 falls out of her purse. She didn't notice this. What do you do?

Call out to her and bring to her attention what happened. Such a simple act of kindness can repay you greatly. 

400

Your friend is upset because someone in your class said something mean to them. How can you help your friend feel better?

Encourage that friend and tell them the things you like about them.

Do something to take their mind off what was said to them.

Remove them from the area of the person who said something mean.

400

You are taking a test, and the guy behind you asks you for help. He wants to know what you put for question number two. What could you do?

You ignore him and keep doing your test

400

What does " Not all that glitters is gold" mean to you?

Not everything that is bright, shiny, looks fun, and appears wonderful is something that is genuinely good for you. 

400

You are watching a movie with your little sister about the coolest monster ever. You look over at your sister, and she has a scared look on her face. Why do you think she looks scared? What could you do or say?

The monster may make her feel scared. You can explain to her that it is fake and made-up; however, be mindful that some movies are not age-appropriate, and the best choice may be to watch it without her. 

400

You notice a 5-year-old walking around. You've been watching and noticing for 10 minutes that there are no adults close by or present. What do you do? 

You can bring it the attention of a trusted adult.

You can ask him if he knows where his parent or guardian is. If he is not sure, see whether there is a police officer around and explain the situation to them.

500

Your friend sat talking to a person who said something mean to you. They looked at you and laughed. What would you do?

You may later ask your friend what they were talking about. Explain to her how it made you feel when you saw that. Though friends are important, it is also important to be aware of the friends you keep and whether they are the best for you. 

500

A group of students is working on a project together, but they are having difficulty agreeing on a topic.

Encourage each student to suggest project topics and discuss the merits of each idea. Facilitate a group discussion to reach a consensus on the project topic.

500

What does empathy mean to you?

Putting yourself into someone else's shoes. Understanding things from another person's  perspective, possible feelings, and situations.

500

In the lunch room, your friend dropped his tray, and his food went all over the floor. How do you think he is feeling, and what would you do?

He might feel sad that his lunch is on the floor, and he may feel embarrassed and hungry. You could comfort him and tell them to explain the accident to the server and get another lunch. 

500

You've been saving for a PS5 for three months, but all your friends have new sneakers, and you are the only one who doesn't own sneakers like those. You have enough money to buy the sneakers but must start all over and save for the PS5. What would you do?

Listen to the reasoning behind their arguments