Physical Bullying
Is physical bullying ALWAYS extreme?
( Punching, shoving ect. )
No! As long as it has happened more than once, even minor actions like poking or tapping are considered physical bullying and should be taken seriously.
If you see someone being verbally bullied more than once, you should just ignore it.
NO! Now that you know so much about bullying, it's important that you share and put what you know to use. If the victim has tried saying "stop" and the bullying has in fact NOT stopped, help them figure out what to do with the things you've learned today.
Should you continue to share secrets with a relational bully, even when they've already spread them to others in the past?
Most of the time, you're better off not risking the chance of getting yourself into that hassle again.
How can you physically bully someone?
By using your body or objects to physically hurt someone. At times, they might also damage your belongings.
How will verbal bullies hurt you?
Most of the time, they'll take advantage of what they know about you. For example, if _____ enjoys drawing, they'll make snarky comments about it or maybe insult you about it.
Is it OK to lash out at the bully?
Having feelings is perfectly normal, but get yourself in control before you lose it. If / when you are ready to talk, play it cool and keep yourself composed.
What "symptoms" will the bully have that are a sign you should tell a teacher?
1. They won't stop despite countless warnings
2. It has happened multiple times 3. You have discussed the issue and they have failed to understand why it bothers you.
Is verbal bullying the most common type of intimidation?
Yes! Most reported cases of bullying come from a verbal bully.
What is another way we call relational bullying?
"Social bullying" is another way we address the relational bullying!
Does physical bullying only happen at school?
All kinds of bullying can happen anywhere and at anytime, so always be aware!
What is the main reason for verbal bullying?
A bully's philosophy is that by projecting their problems onto you, and fortunately it doesn't make them feel any better. They think it will make them seem big, but in others' eyes, they are just mean! So, if you find yourself ever doing these things, take a step back and reflect as to why.
Should you just keep quiet?
No! That's just showing vulnerability. Always keep your chest up and be yourself, because at the end of the day, we're all human and anyone who is rude's opinion doesn't matter.
Is someone who poked you once and promised they wouldn't again worth being reported?
No. Stay away from harmless situations. Sometimes, telling an adult can only stir up more trouble between you and the classmate / friend!
Should you tell a teacher immediately after one comment?
No. Sometimes, we can do our best to figure out the issue between ourselves using the steps we talked about earlier!
Don't be respectful when talking to them
Actually, it's the opposite. Their goal is to get you worked up and stressed out. When they see that you can stay put and remain unaffected, they'll realize their dealing with someone above their level and maybe even apologize.