Traditional
Phrases
Is That Fair?
100

A family is getting ready to go to the mall. Both the son and daughter are wearing a t-shirt and sweats but their parents tell the daughter to change into something more “modest”.

What are clothing double standards

100

“Be A Man”

What is emotional restriction based on gender

100

Monty is the manager of a company while Susan is a bookkeeper. Monty gets paid twice as much as Susan.

Is that fair?: Yes! A manager is a higher rank than a bookkeeper, so that position gets paid more no matter the gender.

200

The daughter of the household has been cleaning all day. The son of the household finally gets up to clean one dish. Their mother sees this and praises him

What are double standards in the household

200

“Boys will be boys”

What are double standards based on behavior

300

A senior in high school wants to major in electrical engineering, but her counselor suggests something “more tame” like a math teacher

What is the assumption of a career based on gender

300

“Who’s watching the kids?” (Directed towards a single mother)

What are double standards based on parenting

400

When a man is giving a presentation, he’s confident and leadership material. When a woman does it, she’s told she should be less aggressive

What is gender bias in the workplace

400

"Such a drama queen"

What is the dismissing of emotional responses

500

A young man in college felt extremely uncomfortable after an encounter with another female student. Instead of raising concerns, his friends celebrated it, telling him she was “totally into him"

what is the stereotype of boys/men liking any encounter with the opposite gender

500

"Father’s Babysitting"

What is not recognizing equal parenting